To effectively talk \";dirty\"; to your husband during sex, you need to know what turns him on.
You may be newly married and don't know what to say yet, but find out by getting to know him. He will tell you what he likes if you just ask him.
or...get into the moment, say whatever comes in your mind...
Every man is different, every woman is different. Ask your husband or what for cues to what type of \";play\"; he likes.
Take care dear,