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  GET SEXY! - by Editor
You don't have to bare all to look sexy. Here's how you can look sexy without looking 'cheap' or sleazy.

Who says you have to bare all to look sexyNULL That's probably the biggest misconception of them all! Slim people can dare to bare without looking obscene, as they are just too waif-like to look voluptuous, but unfortunately the rest of us can't. While it's great to be voluptuous, there's a fine line between sexy and sleazy, and it's easy to overstep that line. As a result most women end up dressing conservatively so they don't end up looking sleazy. Here's how you can look sexy and classy at the same time.

OverweightNULL

Sometimes we wear tight stuff in the belief that it will make us look slimmer. Well, it will NOT. You can get away with wearing clinging stuff if you are slim and without any excess weight anywhere, but the minute you have some spare flesh anywhere, don't draw attention to it with tight clothing.

Lips

Get your lips right. You cannot look sexy unless you've got some lipstick on. Sure, you can look pretty and innocent, which is fine if that's the look you're shopping for, or you can look sexy if you wear the skimpiest number you can get your hands on. (Who's going to look at your lips!) But, like we said, we're trying to look sexy yet decent. So make the most of your lips. If you're wearing all black or all white, you can get away by wearing a red or maroon lipstick. Don't wear a glossy lipstick though. Wear a matte shade, and cover it with a layer of transparent gloss. That always works better than glossy lipsticks. Or wear only gloss with a light rose or pink tint. Dark matte lips are out. Make it a point to line your lips and make sure there's never any lipstick on your teeth. Ugh!

Quality over quantity

Always wear good quality stuff. Even if you don't think so, believe me, quality shows. Of course if you have a good eye and some great fashion sense you can get some great bargains, but on the whole it's easy to go wrong. Pick up your causal clothes from the roadside, but for your formals, get ready to shell out a little more.

The colour red

If you're wearing a bright colour like red, stick to simple styles and good fits. Don't show too much leg or cleavage. Don't wear red from top to toe unless it's a red dress or you're Julia Roberts. Offset it with another colour. Wear red pants with a black top or vice versa.

Body

Don't show too much of your body at a go. If you're showing cleavage, don't wear a mini. If you're wearing a spaghetti top or if you're baring shoulders, don't show cleavage. While a low neck looks nice, a lined cleavage looks plain 'cheap' it's sexy all right, but, as we said before, we want to look classy, not crass.

Bra straps

If you're wearing a black top with a black bra, or a green top with a green bra - the identical green you can show your straps. But otherwise showing them is a fashion NO-NO. Take pains to pin them up in place. We know it can be bothersome, but it's something you should definitely do.

In order to look sexy you have to FEEL sexy. If you try and hide certain imperfections, it's going to show in your body language. So wear what makes you feel good and confident, and watch your sexiness quotient jump up by leaps and bounds.

  • If you haven't waxed your underarms, don't wear anything with short sleeves. You will feel self-conscious every time you lift your arms, consequently reducing your sexiness quotient.
  • As mentioned earlier, pin bra-straps to tops with wayward necklines so you don't keep wondering if everything is in place.
  • Don't wear anything ripped in the hope that it doesn't show, unless you're a hundred percent certain that no matter what you do, your secret is safe.
  • Wear sexy lingerie. It makes you feel good and ups your sexiness quotient.
  • Apply perfumed body lotion on your arms before stepping out. It makes your skin moist, softer and will give it a subtle glow. The light scent will bolster your spirits, elevating your mood.
  • When speaking to someone always look them in the eye.
  • Don't hunch or slouch. Walk with your back ramrod straight.
  • Exercise, exercise! Exercise produces endorphins that make you feel good.
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Name: Soujanya
City:   California, US
Comments:   I believe being and feeling sexy is all in the mind. Right now am pregnant, and though I have put on lot of weight, I feel attractive even though the mirror doesn't seem to think so!! :) So begin with building your confidence levels and u will see the difference in your approach. Its all about attitude!!
Name: the unknown
City:   USA
Comments:   I totally agree with Soujanya,ladies!! it's all in your head! =)
Name: Stephanie
City:   USA
Comments:   HEY! i think that i need to go lingerie shoppign then!
Name: Rekha
City:   New Castle, USA
Comments:   To look sexy....try to be neat. Wear what You like and spray on a floral feminine scent, let your hair down or loosen. Apply a good nail color and a lip- shiner. Thicken your eyelashes and wear a mascara too. Keep your teeth clean and give a pretty smile and have confidence.....U r now sexy enough to take the world around U.
Name: Nisreen
City:   Dubai
Comments:   hey i totally agree with soujanya...she is right its all in ones mind...
Name: kelly
City:   uk
Comments:   hey u all know what your talking about i mean im nearlly 17 and i dont have alot of confidence so u all made me feel good thankz girls xx
Name: deepa
City:   bombay
Comments:   hi rekha...well said!!! shall try to follow up
Name: Felicity
City:   New York
Comments:   Rehka, you hit the nail on its head! I don't think it's possible to be sexy and a slob at the same time
Name: ashley
City:   mumbai, india
Comments:   to look sexy always try to be different. like u can chage ur hair style, ur way of dressing and may be the way u think. if ur confident people will look at u. and if u look different everytime, people will be anxious to see ur diff. look. a sure shot way to look sexy i mean not just sexy but attractive. ya but don't do it over make sure it suits u
Name: simran
City:   mumbai
Comments:   wow!! this makes me feel soo confident and nice!! ashley..i totally agree with u..tht being different really makes wonders..but more then tht i feel...juss B U'RE SELF!!....no matter wht the others feels...its u're feeling tht matters!!
Name: Bhavika
City:   Brisbane
Comments:   Iam pregnent too.I occationally do wear loose but nice coloured shirts and a light make-up.
Name: neelam
City:   US
Comments:   Self esteem plays an important role in feeling sexy. That's why I never let others tell me if I gained weight or wear too much make-up. Always keep in mind, if someone took time to make those comments, they paid too much attention to your looks and that in itself means you did something right. Always, listen to positive feedback and disregard the negative tone. This will help you maintain your self confidence. Always, take time to consult the person at make-up counter. Keep in mind they know the trends. keep up with the beauty trends and be confident in presenting yourself. If you think you can't mix and match cloths, don't be shy in asking for help. The chances are someone you know may have great taste in putting things together, ask them how they do it. I always try to learn from others. Hope this is helpful. Maintain your self-esteem at peak and never let anyone put you down...most importantly believe in yourself.
Name: mimie
City:   india
Comments:   hey,i agree wt rekha s ideas.
Name: melanie
City:   kuala lumpur
Comments:   Look sexy does not meant CLOTHED-SEXY. It's all about the way we bring-outself. It's all about head to toe issue in a very simple, neat and eligent manner.E.g. suitable hair-style, abit of makeup, nice shoe that suits the occations and so on. Nothing doing revealing.
Name: Diya Raja
City:   Pakistan
Comments:   it is superb
Name: Amanda
City:   bennington vermont
Comments:   this spider is great
Name: shivani
City:   brisbane
Comments:   hey girls good job just need the boost u all provide good friends thanx love u all
Name: Lovleen Singh
City:   Cleveland
Comments:   hey girls, to look sexy doesnt mean exposing a lot, u can look sexy even when u r fully covered. All u have to do is select an appropriate dress which makes u look like some classy lad with a lot of attitude. and if u think that u alone can not choose ur dresses , start taking opinions of ur dress designers. Believe me they can help u a lot about what colour to choose, what design to go for etc etc. And yes its true that if u keep on having the same style always, people will get bored with ur looks, so try to be different everytime. like bring variety in ur wardrobe:- pants, skirts salwaar kameez, sarees, indo-american dresses. and do u know that u can look sexy even when u r having two braids( for hair style). So get confident and daring enough to try anything with style. dont underestimate ur feminine powers. Good luck.
Name: Kate
City:   Brisbane
Comments:   I think all women are sexy and beautiful wether they know it or not... Pregnant women, well they are just glowing examples of how beautiful a woman can be, regardless of how much weight she may put on.
Name: sangita
City:   mumbai
Comments:   Just b ur self. if u have a good taste & sense no matter what it will show ur class so gals great going
Name: mandakini
City:   new delhi
Comments:   i stand tall(5'7") and am 60 kgs i wear salwar-kameez mostly. what cuts and designs shd i wear to look good,i wear all colours
Name: Titli
City:   Jamshedpur
Comments:   Hi I'm a 14 yr old girl...i want to look sexy but i have spectacles and some pimple marks on my face
Name: sonakshi
City:   lively mumbai
Comments:   LOOKING SEXY IS SOMETHING WHICH HAS TO DO WITH EYES. HAVE A NAUGHTY GLITTER IN UR EYES RATHER THEN BURDENING THEM WITH EYE SHADOWS AND LINERS. LOOK LIKE A HAWK INTO OTHERS EYES AND U WILL SEE THEM FOLLLWING U. MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE I DID TRY ON MY HUBBY. I AM FAT SHORT CURLY HAIR WITH SPECTACLES AND PIMPLES WITH NORMAL INDIAN EYES. BUT I MAKE HIM COME TO ME WITH THEIR HELP. LEARN TO PLAY WITH UR EYES ...BEST SOLUTION AND SEE PPL PRAISING U FOR HAVIN NOTHING GREAT
Name: Amanda
City:   Jasper
Comments:   Rekha is totally right..ill try to keep up..thanks so much everyone!
Name: Serbon Khan
City:   Presently Karachi
Comments:   I would probably be agree with the physic of opponent sexuality but all is to do a sex with or to have such kind of relation of a mental game...unless we dont have the mental connections with our opponent sex nothing would apply properly other than time wastage...however the real attraction is there where ever is need..in all honesty if u have a greedy element in you like doing sex for money so u would loose the respect for sex rather than having pleasure in it...
Name: Temiyewa
City:   Addis ababa
Comments:   I believe that beauty is on the eye of the beholder. But the most important thing for a woman is to keep her fat level at a minimum and get slim though exercise. Otherwise she'll hate herself
Name: Imran Butt
City:   Khitan,
Comments:   I would like prefer to the women , in her self confidenshel, and good looking to self her body , and like his cloths,good thinking in his home , every person takes care,
Name: heena
City:   delhi
Comments:   When i am speeking to anybody i look to them eyes . This makes me so sexy .
Name: sarah
City:   lhr
Comments:   well i dont like to look sexy i just want to be pretty simple n happy i hate this word sexy.
Name: Jessica
City:   New Brunswick
Comments:   Being sexy is just something that happens in you. Its a change you feel for yourself, when you are proud of yourself and take note that there are some good points you have. Any woman can be sexy, its just you have to SEE yourself as sexy. Everyone around you will fall to their knees once you realise the power is all in you. Girls, be proud of what you have, everything you have. It all makes you what you are, and someone will always love you for who you are.
Name: mona
City:   pune
Comments:   sexy doesn'mean to show off your body. a very simple wearing & a happy attitude also can look sexy. it's actually the way u carry youself with a confidence , that matters a lot.
Name: KABIIR
City:   kolkata
Comments:   i'm a bengali girl.I want to know the hair style,make up and everything for my wedding as i'll wear sari.I want to be unique
Name: irsh
City:   india
Comments:   Hi,my eye's are burning. i need a sloution for this. and i am loosing my eye power, can u give me a solution Plz
Name: Grace
City:   Texas
Comments:   These tips are great!!! Sexy isn't always showing skin, it's being confident and having a great attitude. More women need to learn that just because they aren't a size 10 doesn't mean they aren't sexy. Oh, and by the way to all the women out there, guys think you are sexy they are just to shy to let you know!!!
Name: saira
City:   engaland
Comments:   salaam adnan i heard ur feelin very lonley
Name: Aisha
City:   Lahore
Comments:   I wear glasses on.. how can i look sexyNULL
Name: Salma
City:   bedford
Comments:   I think to look good, you have too feel good. Take yourself somewhere out, and wear what you want, not what others tell you to wear.God has made Everyone pretty in there own way, so dont stop living just because u think youre not attractive enough, how r u gonna know how u look if u look in the mirror 24-7. Just change the things u dont like about ure self and feel better.
Name: det
City:   makati city
Comments:   i am a fat,curly,and shy girl i want my fashion sense to become unique pls help me i am only girl in the class who always wear t-shirt you are the only website i wrote this thing pls help me. and can u pls show some latest pics. of clothes which fat persons wear thank u very much
Name: sonia
City:   x
Comments:   Hi, SHARMI ,kolkata. pls contact me on my mail . i'll send u some nice things for u to look good n sexy.
Name: Farial
City:   Islamabad
Comments:   hey guys n gals! i totally agree with Neelam.Self esteem is alwayz important.. never let urself let down on otherz stupid remarks and just have super beleif on urself..!
Name: Sameera
City:   DXB
Comments:   Oh my god! Why r u guys SOO desparate?? I´m talkin about the guys who r givin their cell n.o.´s etc. I mean what´s wrong with u! How sick.
Name: neha
City:   Fiji
Comments:   is their really something that can make me look fair pliz help me out. i need help
Name: Rao
City:   rahim yar khan
Comments:   can i look like a young boy.
Name: anjum
City:   islamabad
Comments:   is their really something that can make me look fair pliz help me out. i need help
Name: Ram Kumar
City:   Delhi
Comments:   Hi beauty´s i am looking for a beautiful girl if some one is from NCR please do not hesitate confidentality would maitain at all.
Name: SKP
City:   New Delhi
Comments:   Hi Sameera, U R nice girl, but surely don´t know your power in regard to men. Pls try to see from the eyes of mine, you will get a ultra modern taste and if relates with anyone experienced and gentlemen like me or have only sharing the views, you must be extra ordinary funny and near to wisdom.
Name: Sameera
City:   DXB
Comments:   What???What r u talking about "SKP" ?
Name: manu
City:   madras
Comments:   nothing
Name: Shreshta
City:   India
Comments:   I am aged 20. I have a tummy which i badly want to reduce. I dont want to take tablets or wear the belts shown in advertisements. Suggest me some diet or some exercises which help me look good. Also i am not in good shape. I want to get my body in good shape.Thanks.
Name: ajay kumar
City:   delhi
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