![]() Views on Article - Godh Bharna (Indian Baby Shower) Name: kishore Country: India Comment: i want modern hindu names starting letter with M for baby boy. could help me out. Name: Stacey Country: U.S.A. Comment: I have a friend who's wife is expecting a baby in September. This is his first baby and he is so excited. It is a boy. I would like to make him a baby quilt, but I cannot find any references to baby quilts being part of India Culture. Can you help? Is a baby quilt an appropriate gift? What types of fabric do you use? Name: asha Country: India Comment: Can anyone tell me step by step how to do 7th month Function according to Telugu custom.Is it done at mothers’s place or inlaws place.Who does the Function.Pl.advice Name: natasha patel Country: United Kingdom Comment: I am going to have my godh bharanu ceremony, but in the ceremony once the lap was filed and then you would return it back to the number of times you are pregnant, but there is a significance of not dropping the rice that is filled in your lap. What does it mean if you did drop the rice? Name: geets Country: India Comment: Hi, My god bharai is day after tomorrow...after reading this article i have become aware of the importance of this ceremony..i m going to put mehendi on my feet and hands and am going to dress up really nice :-) Name: Swita Country: India Comment: Gjpt Name: swapna Country: India Comment: i want to know the gender of my baby as of now iam 7th month carrying Name: APatel Country: U.S.A. Comment: Teresa - you aren't in a position the give a traditional Indian babys shower as you are not the girl's mother or mother-in-law. Though I am sure she would not mind having a second American baby shower for fun. We are having two, one traditional one his mother will host and one for us with our American, Indian, and all other friends - as we have friends from all over the world. Good Luck. Name: APatel Country: U.S.A. Comment: I am white and married to a wonderful Gujarati man. I have lasted just fine. Please remember we are all individuals no matter where we were originally from. My Srimantham will be hosted my by mother in law. These things seem to vary from state to state and town to town. It is nice to see a forum on this subject for reference since there is such variety and little literature on the subject as compared to weddings. Jai Shree Krishna. Name: finally babies Country: U.S.A. Comment: I'm finally having my babies...but no one want to hold the shower! Who "should" want to hold it? I have been told that it's generally your inlaws that are excited and want to do this? Is the ceremony a blessing for the babies? Name: k Country: India Comment: I am American and have an Indian friend i would like to hold a baby shower for, is this ok? it is traditional in america for friends to often hold these for friends...is this something that would be considered ok for me to do? Thanks Name: DSG Country: U.S.A. Comment: I am close to my due date. My parents are Bengali, my husband is Kashmiri - we are Hindu. We had both a Godh Barai (in-law side) and a Bengali 'shaadh' (my mother's wish). Effectively, the sentiments are the same. They are blessings for the mother-to-be. The difference is simply in the ritual carried out. The Godh Barai was a blessing using fruits, given to the mother (I also dressed up quite nicely in a wedding sari I had). The shaadh was a little less fanfare, but still involved dressing up and being blessed by friends and elders using 5 traditional puja items and putting vermillion on the mother-to-be. These exact rituals vary as we assimilate....but effectively are the same idea. Depends on how traditional you want to be. Name: qinwrjotir Country: Macedonia Comment: cod overnight tramadol Name: Anna Country: United Kingdom Comment: i recently had a miscarriage and my bf and i were wounderin if there is any ceremony that can be done. im guji n my bf is sikh we would like it to be a hindu ritual ceronmny... let me know pls xx thanks xx Name: annoymouse Country: U.S.A. Comment: for bs patel above.. you married a guju and ur white...get a divorce dipshit ur not gonna last Name: Sushil Country: India Comment: I want to invite many person for Godh barna but i am not getting proper words and paragraph wht whould i write and give the invitation , so please help me on the same Name: please sugest me few names with BHI Country: India Comment: BHI letter Name: jyotsna Country: India Comment: i want to know about the rasam of god bharai in hindu punjabi family. thanks Name: Ram Country: India Comment: want baby name starting with the letter T But it should be cute and trendy one Name: Jayanthi Country: India Comment: Please suggest any good name from E, No and Y for Baby Boy. Name: priya Country: India Comment: hiiii india parentin m very new 2 this site ....nd just luvin it...m a jaini mu godh bharai will b very soon though my inlaws r nt doin it my parents r keen 2 do it .i would like 2 know mre abt this festival so that we can make it memorable.... Name: Sobin Country: India Comment: It was very amaizing site.I like very much Name: jimmy Country: India Comment: please guide for right name Name: jingrasin Country: U.S.A. Comment: Where are the answers to all these wonderful questions. I am planning a baby shower for and Indian friend of mine and would love some advise Judy Name: Babita Country: U.S.A. Comment: my sister-in-law is married to an american. Thus she wants all the rituals of hindu/gujarati. I will be doing her godh bharna (shrimant). Pls give me information on this topic so i can share it with her in laws. Name: Sudhanshu Country: India Comment: Pls suggest me two names for my babies in Hindi or Bengali synonims of those will Goddes Laxmi and Durga/Sarashwati Name: Rita singh Country: U.S.A. Comment: looking for a name starting with s Name: kamla Country: U.S.A. Comment: we rae Punjabies & our son is married to Gujrati girl and is expecting twins in April/may. i am very ignorent aboutthe Indian customs since I vcame to this country right after I got married. Pl. help me or lighten me with the rituals I am supposed to do. Thanks. kamla Name: M.Y. Country: U.S.A. Comment: Hi BS Patel. I have had a similar situation, but if I were you, I wouldn't look at your "predicament" along the lines of what you are or aren't "obligated" to do. If, as you say, you and your husband share the same faith, remember that the Gujarati ceremony for the child is just that...a ceremony. Participating in the ceremony makes you no less Hindu as being sprinkled makes you Catholic. You know as well as I do that it is not the act, but what is in the heart. His family will be your family for your entire lives. Look at this ceremony as another educational and CULTURAL experience. It is an expression of love for your child...how can this be bad? As for your "comfort" with the ceremony, you must remember that you married outside your culture, and there will be things that arise that will be outside your comfort zone. This is who your husband is. I think you should go with it and be grateful for all of the many exciting things your child will be exposed to throughout his or her life. Do you plan to keep your child from learning anything about his Indian heritage? You can teach your child to the best of your ability, but ultimately, you will leave the fate (and faith) of your child in God's hands. Make your family happy and enjoy the experience yourself. You won't regret it, though you might if you refuse the ceremony. Name: ba,bhi, Country: India Comment: telugu names Name: SHASHI Country: India Comment: PLEASE SUGGEST ME NAME FOR MY MALE CHILD DATE OF BIRTH-17/09/2006 & TIME IS 12.47 P.M MY E-MAIL I.D.is cruse2005@indiatimes.co Name: SHASHI Country: India Comment: PLEASE SUGGEST ME NAME FOR MY MALE CHILD DATE OF BIRTH-17/09/2006 & TIME IS 12.47 P.M MY E-MAIL I.D.is cruse2005@indiatimes.co Name: SHASHI Country: India Comment: PLEASE SUGGEST ME NAME FOR MY MALE CHILD DATE OF BIRTH-17/09/2006 & TIME IS 12.47 P.M Name: ujjval patel Country: India Comment: suggest classic names for my cute baby girl. Name: prakash/gunjan Country: India Comment: We are Sindhi's.My son is settled in USA, Baby Shower is planned for my DIL, what is system in USA, for parents Name: Country: Israel Comment: Name: KATIE Country: U.S.A. Comment: I WILL BE ATTENING THE 7TH MONTH GODH BHARNA OF A FRIEND. WHAT SHOUD I TAKE WITH ME FOR A GIFT? AND IS THERE ANYTHING SPECIAL I NEED TO DO WHEN I AM THERE? Name: abirami Country: India Comment: nice to read very informative Name: mnichol@state.pa.us Country: india Comment: I am a catholic male & have the honor of being "god father" to my friend's son. The baby turns age 1yr on 8-6-06. What tratitional gift whould be appropriate? Name: Country: guadeloupe Comment: Name: desi patel Country: usa Comment: Can any suggest me good name for baby boy ? Name: uttam.avachite@yahoo.co.in Country: india Comment: Suggest me a good hindu Baby's Name Name: Tara Country: usa Comment: I want to know how to do this resam step by step Name: Tara Country: india Comment: I want to know more about this Godh Bhana resam for I want to do a baby shower Name: tara Country: india Comment: i would like to know about this godharna for I want to do an Indian baby shower. Name: bs patel Country: usa Comment: I am a white catholic woman, married to a hindu man(gujarati) Our child will be baptised catholic, his parents want to have a large religious ceremony for a baby shower. I am not comfortable with this since we are raising our children according to our faith. They had requested a hindu wedding ceremony which we had. What am I obligated to do? Name: k Country: india Comment: tamilnadu girls Name: s Country: india Comment: boy Name: GULLE Country: mexico Comment: QUISIERASAVER COMO PREPARA UN BEBI SHOWER Name: iqbal Country: india Comment: i need good girl friend Name: Sehry Country: canada Comment: Hi, I am doing my research paper on godh bharai, the Indian baby shower. Please email me details on this topic at sehrish@yorku.ca. Thanks. 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What type of attire the mother to be needs to wear on this day. What the inlaws need to do and give and what the mother needs to do and give. Name: indrajit Country: india Comment: i want beautiful new born baby name boy and girl both name starting character (I/s) with good meaning indrajit_cal05@yahoo.com Name: ALI RAJ. Country: pakistan Comment: I WANT TO MARRIAGE WITH AN INDIAN GIRL.I M ELECTRICAL ENG.CONTACT ME AT ALI007@YAHOO.COM Name: S Country: australia Comment: I wanted to now new punjabi for girls starting with S Name: ganesh Country: india Comment: my first daughter's name is esha pls.suggest me girl name for my second daughter. Name: subha atluri Country: usa Comment: i want to know detailed steps of sreemantham{TELUGU}.please email meat subhaatluri@yahoo.com Name: anwesha Country: india Comment: pls suggst me some bengali unique names for my new born baby Name: rajvir c boradhara Country: india Comment: to come canada any one help me. i amvery poor student Name: Chasity Horton Country: usa Comment: I think you take the baby something like some bootles, baby wipes or something like that. Name: shailesh puro Country: india Comment: My wife is carrying 7 months. i want to know about god bharai procedure. Tell me somthing about dohale jewan. on my eamil id i.e Shailesh.Puro@intertek.com or shaileshpuro@rediffmail.com Thanks & regds Shailesh Name: shailesh puro Country: india Comment: My wife is carrying 7 months. i want to know about god bharai procedure. Tell me somthing about dohale jewan. Thanks & regds Shailesh Name: Mahi Country: usa Comment: Can someone please email me details on N. Indian or Punjabi godh bharai at my email: mkapur74@yahoo.com Name: archana Country: india Comment: Hi, I'm pregnant for first time. I'm 7 months pregnant. We live in USA.And me and my husband don't know anything about "Gujrati god bharai". So can you please give us the detail step-by-step pooja for god bharai? It will be really helpful to us. What my Mother and In-laws suppose to give me on this special day? When is the best time to do this? Please give me as much as information you can on "gujju god bharai". I'm really waiting for your reply. My email id is archanapv9@yahoo.com Name: payal Country: usa Comment: please tell me about nau masik rakhdi tying at time of godh bharai as gujarati tradition. how to prepare it? or send me photos because my godh bharai will in month of november. prshah_123@yahoo.com Name: elsa Country: usa Comment: Hello, I am pregnant for the first time and my mom wants to celebrate it in a traditional Kerala fashion. Please tell me what this entails. Looking forward to your response. She had mentioned a celebration in my 7th month. Please write to ent012305@hotmail.com THANKS Name: moonmoon Country: india Comment: this is a great website. i am 7 weeks due. please let me know how to perform Saadh according to bengali ritual...on what date . i am eagerly waiting for your reply. thanks for the wonderful information. moonmoonc2003@yahoo.com Name: Nidhi Country: india Comment: Please Let me know how does sindhi perform Baby Shower nidhi.dham@gmail.com Name: Renuka Country: canada Comment: Please Let me know how does sindhi perform Baby Shower Name: sakhi Country: usa Comment: I would like to receive maharashtrian style god bharai i.e. dohala jevan vidhi . Please send me so at pahat@indiatimes.com Name: guest Country: usa Comment: can someone tell me the maharashtrian rituals for dolha jevan? i want to do the same for one of my friends but do not know anything about it. my email is kulkarnickk@yahoo.com Name: ipa Country: usa Comment: I want to plan baby shower, but how do I know when 7th month starts (what week of Prganancy) and ends? What date should I start and how many days per month should I calculate? Name: S Country: india Comment: PLEASE GIVE ME NAME WHICH START FROM "S" Name: kripa Country: india Comment: i am pregnant for the first time!i am 6 months preg and my hus wants to have sex at all the nights ...is it safe for the baby? Name: peach Country: united kingdom Comment: can someone pls tell me why u cant wash your hair till the 7th month? so how are u supposed to clean ur hair? also what if the lady's 1st pregnancy ended in miscarriage can she still have this ceremony! thanks Name: ra Country: india Comment: it should be ra Name: sahil Country: saudi arabia Comment: any lady want my child.i m welset here, good monthly income.i m good young(28)if want me marrage.also welcome.any lady want me pls cont. saeedpatel2003@yahoo.com Name: sukheee Country: usa Comment: I need the details to about punjabi Godh Bharai...I would appreciate your help. thanks Name: Renuka Country: usa Comment: Please let me know how do sindhi's perform baby shower. renuka.adnani@gmail.com Name: meg Country: usa Comment: Can anybody tell me the step by step vidhi for gujarati baby shower. My email: meghnit@netscape.net Name: Sonya Country: india Comment: I am giving babyshower to my nephew's wife. What is the procedure or pooja I am supposed to have. Name: girls name for new born babys Country: india Comment: new born baby Name: Thakar Family Country: india Comment: Hi, I'm pregnant for first time. I'm 6 months pregnant. We live in USA.And me and my husband don't know anything about "Gujrati god bharai". So can you please give us the detail step-by-step pooja for god bharai? It will be really helpful to us. What my Mother and In-laws suppose to give me on this special day? When is the best time to do this? Please give me as much as information you can on "gujju god bharai". I'm really waiting for your reply. My email id is thakarshilpa@yahoo.com Name: prasad Country: usa Comment: V R planning for a srimantham of my wife.I am here alone and all other kith and kin in India.Can u please tell me which is the better gift for presenting my wife. My mail id is sprasad2005@yahoo.com Name: Megha vora Country: india Comment: I got real god gift. I am very happy. This work was done very beautifully. Name: ke Country: india Comment: any name Name: Roswqueen@rediffmail.com Country: india Comment: maharashtra have a ritual called "Dohal jevan" also known as "Oty Bharan" and in hindi known as godh bahrai. On this occassion Hindus give as Dinner party to all the relatives.. the ceremony has one ritual called Pedha kaa barphi.. means these are two indian sweets one represent a baby boy and one a baby girl .. so the would be mother .. selects one from two closed blows filled one filled with pedha (representing baby boy) and other with barphi (representing a baby girl).. and after that all the relatives are distributed with choosed sweets to celebarte the expected kid Name: marathi girls name for new born babys Country: india Comment: hindus girls name for new born baby Name: Pat Country: bangladesh Comment: I have been invited to a baby shower for a friend from Bangladesh. She is in her 7th month. I am supposed to bring something sweet. Are we supposed to bring baby gifts or just gifts for the mother to be. Please help. Thank you very much. The party is February 12. Name: Teresa Country: usa Comment: I have a friend and co-worker from India who is pregnant and would like to give her a traditional indian baby shower. Could you please fill me in on what to do? Thanks, t Name: denisse Country: mexico Comment: i want 2 know what does a brother in law has to do in the Godh Bharna, and what does the husband do in the ceremony? Name: hk Country: Malaysia Comment: just delivered premature baby girl at 28 weeks.she's still in incubator at hospital.hope she gain weight and come back home fast. Name: Andree Country: Canada Comment: I will be attending the 7th moth Godh Bharna of a friend. What gift should I bring? Name: chhand Country: USA Comment: the article on godh bharna is very informative, i would like to know more about valai kappu , the rituals involed in the ceremony and how it is celebrated. mu e.mail is kulkarnickk@yahoo.com Name: lom Country: India Comment: how to give Name: TeluguVeera Country: USA Comment: Is there any specific month we need to do SRIMANTHAM ? Is there any restriction or bad omen attached to 8 th month? I am a telugu person from india Name: dohale jevan Country: USA Comment: pl. give me suggestion about dohale jevan in indian (marathi tradition ) in hindi god bharai. i don't know how to celebrate. pl. someonne help me. i want to celebrate my sister baby shower from indian marathi tradition pl. send me through mail. roswqueen@rediffmail.com thank you Name: Shandy Country: USA Comment: Check out this link. They ahve pictures of an Indian shower http://www.indiaparenting.com/funtime/7thmonthphotos/index.shtml Name: Pri Country: USA Comment: We are a Baby shower in less than a wekkk from now, Can someone plese tell, what indian ceremony is and how to do ? ? email at citytech2005@yahoo.com Thanks. Name: nish Country: USA Comment: excellent article. My question is does the ceremony have to be on a Sunday? If so why? please reply nish929@hotmail.com Name: n Country: India Comment: aa Name: Dayanand Country: India Comment: my Wife is Expecting Baby in Nov 2004. at her 7th month of pregnency we in maharashtra have a ritual called "Dohal jevan" also known as "Oty Bharan" and in hindi known as godh bahrai. On this occassion Hindus give as Dinner party to all the relatives.. the ceremony has one ritual called Pedha kaa barphi.. means these are two indian sweets one represent a baby boy and one a baby girl .. so the would be mother .. selects one from two closed blows filled one filled with pedha (representing baby boy) and other with barphi (representing a baby girl).. and after that all the relatives are distributed with choosed sweets to celebarte the expected kid Name: Nanda Country: India Comment: What is the synonym in English for "sreemantham" Name: Baby K Country: England Comment: I have just found out that i am pregnant. Does anyone know what the rituals are on wshing hair during pregnancy? Name: usha Country: England Comment: i want to ask you what is needed in khora bharat and how is the ceremony carried out. What do a person do after she has washed the hair at seven months expecting the baby. do we need green cloth, sakar, coconut. Does the girl's in-laws give any present. please reply as soon as possible as the ceremony is going to be carried this sunday on 30/05/04. I would appreciate if i receive the answer by tomorrow. Name: Robin Country: USA Comment: I've been invited to an India Baby Shower. What type of clothing can I were to celebrate my friends culture? What type of gift should I brign. I am truly honored. The celebration is in 5 days. Thanks allsufficien@tfnmail.com Name: young daughter Country: Canada Comment: my mom is going to have a baby soon, and we want to have a baby shower with some indian tradition and influence. plz emial me with sum good info @ chinchin2003@msn.com Name: mrsgupta03 Country: USA Comment: My husband is Indian, but I am of European descent. His mausi and bhabhi want to perform the Godh Bharna for me, but his mataji doesn't seem to think it is necessary, since I am not Indian. What is this ceremony, and is it an important part of our baby's heritage? Name: Angie Country: Australia Comment: Hi, my husband is a North indian, rajputra( shatri ), I was hoping that someone could give me guidelines on how to perform the godh bharai ceremony. Or if I could be emailed ( asingh@barekoala.net ) some steps and procedures, this will be greatly appreciated indeed. Thanks Name: sanjay Country: Canada Comment: Could someone send me step by step info as to how do cary out hindu baby shower. I have no clue. prasads@sprint.ca Name: expectant father Country: USA Comment: Is it ok to send out baby shower cards for a Godh Bharna and add in a gift registry slip information for it ? and make it Godh Bharna/baby shower or is it not appropriate ? Name: Hema Country: USA Comment: I am from Andhrapradesh(Telugu)India,currently living in USA.Could you send me this article on Sreemantham. My e-mail Id : Hemachepuri@yahoo.com Thank-you so much. Name: Devi Country: USA Comment: This is very similar to the gujarati "Shrimant" vidhi...!! My ceremony was performed a couple weeks ago and it was really grand. Someone had asked a question as to if a lady who has miscarried can perform the godbharai. As far as I know, it is not advisable. Find a married woman from in-law side of mother-to-be who has kids and has never had a miscarriage. That is the prerequisite. Name: piper Country: India Comment: i would like to find out exactly how (step by step) a sreemantham ceremony takes place. Could someone please send me the info???? E:mail komalarao@hotmail.com Name: navin Country: India Comment: my son name Name: Roma Country: India Comment: Can anyone out there tell me how the Tamil sreemantham ceremony is performed, what are the rituals, sweets? Please Help Name: dadtobe Country: USA Comment: is it ok if the husband performs this ceremony in case mother or mother in law or any other elder ladies are not around? I'm all alone with my wife here and she is in sixth month. Pls reply to me at dadtobe123@yahoo.com Name: surooha Country: USA Comment: I neeed the complete step by step Godh Bharna Ceremony ASAP. The ceremony is tgo take place witin two days. Thanks for your service. E-mail surooha@aol.com Hasuru Name: Dee Country: England Comment: Excellent article, well informed. I am due in 5 weeks and JUST wish that my in laws had performed this ceremony for me as it is something I had always wanted. But what can u do?? Good luck to everyone else. Name: KC Country: USA Comment: Hi, that was a great article. However, is anybody familiar with the Gujarati "khoro bharat" ceremony? It sounds like it is very similar to what is in the article but are there any differences? I know some who were not supposed to wash their hair till they reached this point (7th month). Name: pramit Country: India Comment: I have became chacha . this is my duty to find bhatija's name? Name: sreelu Country: USA Comment: V R planning for a srimantham of my vadina.I am here alone and all other kith and kin in India.Can u please tell me what to do and what all we need for that. My mail id is sreedevialla@hotmail.com Name: Kanchan Country: USA Comment: Is it OK to accept the gift for baby during Godh Bharai, as we are having it in US and some people think it is baby shower and bring gifts for the baby. Name: Vidya Country: USA Comment: We are planning to do a baby shower for one of our friends.I would like to know the procedure to perform this in a traditional way.My e-mail is vids10@yahoo.com Name: Leisa Country: USA Comment: My sis-in-law is planning my godh bharna and we would like some information on the ritual. email @ lgurdyal@aol.com . thx. Name: GodH Country: Other Comment: My nickname is GodH Stands for "God o' d' Hell", but, I guess, the translation 's nice too. Name: nina Country: USA Comment: Do you put henna on your hands as well as your feet?? Name: pooja saini Country: India Comment: please tell me about nau masik rakhdi tying at time of godh bharai as gujarati tradition. how to prepare it? or send me photos because my godh bharai will in month of november,please please note my e-mail montu2978@yahoo.co.in Name: Soni Country: Singapore Comment: This is an excellent information....I am Pregnant for the first time and I wish such a cremony could also be performed for me. I am not a Singaporean though..staying with in laws..where should I perform this ceremony? mum's or in laws hse better? Pls advise.. Name: Pooju Country: India Comment: tell me something about Nau Masik Rakhdi.where is it available?or how to oprepare it as per gujarati tradition. Name: deepa Country: India Comment: 2 years back during my godhbharai i had wonderful time with all elders wishing me luck in their own way.this ceremony has different rules in diff. parts of india.being a punjabi married to a south indian mine was an amalgamation of both and loads of love from both sides. i feel lucky to have been made feel so blessed that day.thanks to indian rituals. Name: Bijlani Family Country: India Comment: This is a nice article for the younger expectant mothers to be to know the traditions Good site. they are away from home Name: Debra Country: USA Comment: I would like to know what I can give my friend, Shailaja as a gift for a second baby? Name: Geeta Country: Canada Comment: Thank-you. This is excellent information. Please elaborate further on this article and enter more details as it is very valuable information for us. Name: Sonia Country: USA Comment: I think this is a great article because it informs indian people here of the traditions in india. Good Job!! Name: Kalpana Country: USA Comment: I was brought up in India but now living in US.This is very informative and U have done a commendable job.Thanks for reminding the rituals of India for Indians living abroad.Keep it up! Name: sonia Country: India Comment: Hi I was born and brought up in Bhopal and am married to a punjabi family staying in chennai for over 20 years. I was delighted reading your article and I immediately called up my hubby and asked him to read this article. I am eagerly awaiting for my godh bharna function which is expected in January 2001 and my mother is also all excited to join me in this function. Name: selvi Country: USA Comment: In Tamil Nadu, where I am from, the function is called "Valai kappu". In the main part of the ceremony the mother to be is adorned with colorful bangles. All invitees are presented with bangles and other gifts. Usually there is a big feast for all invitees including men. Name: Sema Country: USA Comment: I'm in US and expecting my first child.My mother is here to perform this function.This article is really useful for us as a checklist.Thanks. Name: Manju Baweja Country: India Comment: I am a mother of two sons.In future this information will help me to welcome my daughter-in-laws because I was not welcomed like this. Name: sunita Country: England Comment: Could you please tell me why a preganant women cannot wash her hair until the day of her Godha Bharna (for first pregnancies only)? Also why is is that you are forbidden to eat certain foods, such as, coconut & Sesame Seeds until after the Godh Bharna? Name: Sapna Country: USA Comment: I will be having my baby shower ceremony in October. This was a very informative article. My sister-in-law recently had a miscarriage. Is it alright for her to participate in the ceremony? If not, then who may we ask according to hindu traditon? Name: Lara Country: USA Comment: I am a midwifery student in the US. I am writing a paper on pregnancy and birth in other cultures. Your website, and this article were very helpful! Thank you! Name: mamapengu Country: Other Comment: What parts of India is this practiced in? I am Bengali and have never seen this. We have something called Shaadh, which both Hindus and Muslims celebrate. Name: kamal Country: Dubai Comment: It is very nice to know the ceremony about, but can you please let me know what is the significance and also is this function only for the first child ??? Name: Madhu Hemanth Kumar Country: USA Comment: U have done a good job.People staying in other contries like US will not know correctly how the function will goon.I atleat came to know so many thing from this.Thanks to u. Name: rama devi Country: USA Comment: its a good job.thanks for reminding the rituals of india for indians living abroad.those r really colorful pictures. Name: RAJESSMOORTHY Country: Malaysia Comment: I'M PREGNANT FOR FIRST CHILD AND I FEEL SO MUCH HAPPY FOR THE FUNCTION THEY DID FOR ME..... Name: NAYAN Country: Dubai Comment: Hi, You wont believe i have been hunting for this information for more than 2 weeks and when i finaly did get it, it was great pleasure reading the same. Since i am expecting my first child i wanted this information very badly. Thanks a lots Keep up the good work Nayan Name: Rohini Country: USA Comment: India is a large country with cutoms varying from each region. My 7th month funtion "Srimantham" was quite different although equally as grand. The main difference is that it was hosted by my mother only. The in-laws are just guests. However, we all had fun and I felt truly blessed. Name: Shalini Country: Dubai Comment: Its a great effort. Thanks for the information. Surely this will be useful for all first time would-be-mothers who are all alone away from there homeland & without any guidance of their elders. Name: Anupama Raju Country: USA Comment: This is very useful information for hindu pregnant women. This is really a very excellent work. It's very clearly explained how the ceremony is performed. Thank you very much for the nice work you have done. Name: ROSALINDA Country: USA Comment: IT IS NICE TO HAVE SO MANY PEOPLE CELEBRATING THE UP COMING BIRTH OF YOUR FIST CHILD Name: Charoo Country: Canada Comment: Excellent work, Will educate a lot of people overseas on the significance of the Indian rituals. Name: Shruti Country: India Comment: I am Pregnant for the first time and I wish such a cremony is also performed for me. Name: Mita Shingwani Country: India Comment: Those are beautoiful pictures! Name: Manjula Kumar Country: USA Comment: This is very informative for people like us as we are alone here and we don't know anything about all these ceremonies. Name: amita Country: India Comment: great work.Will educate a lot of people on the significance of the rituals!!!!! Name: Amelia Country: USA Comment: I will be attending the 7th month Godh Bharna of a friend. What should I take with me as a gift?
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