Views on Article - Eating Disorders
Name: Isabella
Country: Spain
Comment:
how much should a 14 year old girl about 5'3 weigh? ^please answer this! gracias(:
Name: People
Country: U.S.A.
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I go back and look at all the comments I put here in the past. All of what I said WAS true. Thank god I got help.
Name: JEMMA
Country: Other
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I LOVE FOOD
Name: lew
Country: Italy
Comment:
Abbey: you don't have to have a boyfriend by seventh grade. I don't know who told you that or what gave you that idea, but most people don't date until college! Sure, it may look fun to date and go out with a million guys, but it's really not important. Honestly, the girls who go out with tons of boys are thought poorly of and the girls who don't date at all have a lot of respect. And if you relax and just have fun (the responsible way), you will find plenty of friends. Don't stress- there's really no need.
Name: Cass
Country: Guam
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hey sad - good to see you remember me. :) i'm doing ok. cutting is still the way i vent. i just can fall into any more bad habits! haha. i kno it's wrong and that God doesn't want me to do it - but it realy hard to stop. ah. lol. you kno, sad, *sigh* life goes on. um. yeah i still feel fat. although i've been sick recently and not able to keep anything down....and everyone things i'm bulimic or something. oy. it's crazy. haha but i've tried to loss some more weight - i'm not skinny. even though my my friends and family say i am....ah. lol. i guess that's just how this works right? well yeah, i'll send up a pray for you all now. take care and i'll try to stop by every once and a while. i'm full time at college so yeah, life is crazy. cass :D
Name: Abbey
Country: U.S.A.
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Im 11 and going into middle school next year. Im worried nobody will like me exsept for my old friends [whos dads are in the navy so they frequently get transfered form state to state]. I think every body will go against me and i wont have a boyfriend by 7th grade. Any ideas i fit in walks with my dog when ever i can. Help?
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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Wow, you weigh...not a lot! You're pretty underweight. Don't be afraid of eating; you need to.
Name: ashley
Country: India
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hi, i am 16 years old, 103 pounds, 5'4 im not sure if something is wrong with me because if i ever get over 105 ponds i simply wont eat, i always am thinking of food and worrying about it, i feel like i should weigh less...opinions>?
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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Hey Cass, I know how hard it is to stop cutting. I did it for years before deciding one night to listen to music instead. And slowly that became the replacing habit. I still struggle with my e.d. too, but not as much. Even on an ok food day, I think about it.It's still kinda hard to accept that being skinny isn't in my genes. But I could be thin, even though skinny is what I strived for. Thin is still good.
Name: Cassdiving rocks
Country: Fiji
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Hi you all. Long time no chat, eh? Remember me, the stupid girl who was on here like two years ago. Yeah. That was me, Cassandra, yeah or however you wanna refer to me. Oy, I hope you all are doing okay. I think about you often......let's see, i'm no longer anorexic, but trust me, I think about it all the time. Currently I struggle with cutting, BUT I'm working on stopping. I'm now in college (wooohoooo!!!) and really enjoy everything. Any updates from you all? Miss yah! God bless. Love always, Cass
Name: People
Country: U.S.A.
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I been okay now, I am soo happy now. It is all over for me now thanks for such good friends, and I couldnt have made it without them <3 They may be adults and me 14, but hey you know. I am fine thanks to them, no thoughts of starving or self harm :)
Name: mizz_behave
Country: Australia
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look i have to say that i am so freaking thing that i have pplz comin up to me on the street and aking if i have a eating disorder...I DONT i9 am just so freakin naturally thin
Name: Angel
Country: Australia
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do'nt worry about it. Don't strave your body needs engery
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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*sigh* no offense, but this isn't a weight loss chatroom. I'm getting anoyed with all these ppl who come on here to ask how they lose all their weight.
Name: steph
Country: United Kingdom
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oops i think i whent a bit wrong there wen i said that i was 48 pounds! I am 6 stone 3 and i could really do with some help
Name: steph
Country: United Kingdom
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hi i just wanted to ask 4 ur advice coz i' 19 and i am 5ft2" and i weigh 48 pounds. I have been told that i need help but i am scared of what will happen next. I don't have breakfast, skip lunch and barely eat dinner and just want to be the size i'm happy with, can anyone help?!!!
Name: chicken goose
Country: India
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hi
Name: lied to
Country: Australia
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my friends and family tell me that i look fine and that im not fat, but they are all liars. I am so unsatisfied with my weight. I see pictures of myself and want to cry. I cant make myself throw up, ive tried and I cant not eat because I have no self discipline.. i try to do the healthy working out thing, but im not losing weight. Im 139 lbs and im 5'3/5'4... im tired of being lied to. dont you hate that! P.s. im sorry you guys feel fat, but you are so skinny.. look at me! my numbers are HUGE compared to yours!
Name: laura
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
yall need to exercise instead of throw up
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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I always regret when I continued to try to throw up when I failed the first few three times. DON'T ever start. your body will get used to it and the urge will get stronger. so will the urge to eat a lot. I've been doing good with it lately but it's a long road. it's only been 3 years.
Name: yongis
Country: U.S.A.
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when i look at myself i look at big fat blob their are times when i think of stiking my finger in my mouth and throwing up evry hting that i have aten but im scare to becom like my sis
Name: asia 15 years old always keke bird
Country: U.S.A.
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being fat doesnt mean you have to be skinny just as long as your happy of who you are and dont worry about competing with all the other girls just be you and no body eles cuase no one can smile act or look as beatiful as they wont to look!
Name: tameishey11 years old down with christ
Country: U.S.A.
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the girl thats name says i am obiese you aren you have to put a effort in not eating so much or have self controlo know i am not telling you to starve yourself but be proud stand tall and be bold if your getting teased about it you just put them people in a catagory of a hater ttyl stay strong and keep your head up and i am 11 years old
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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living with an eating disorder is miserable. i just feel so worthless and hopeless... i do NOT advise ANY person to restrict or purge AT ALL. it makes you feel horrible... awful... guilty..... and "afraid"... not to mention the voices...
Name: people
Country: U.S.A.
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dang in that case i dont blame you maby i do have O.D.D what ever the reason. i think i do i have to cool it b/c i am starte=ing to hate to many people but i quickly forgive most except the school counslers, mom, this girl named britt, a few teachers someone named... im not even going on but maby you are right, not like i can help it though.
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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i detect a little O.D.D. there. but anyhow; i never started to lose because of the media, or anything like that...my family...used to call me fat, and tell me to stop eating...and say i eat all the time. they nicknamed me Hoover when i was barely a year old!..but my family is all C.E.D.!
Name: people
Country: U.S.A.
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meh my mom dont care enough to send me to a special school i see what ya mean all of a sudden im begining to look at my self and goin am i gaining weight? bu i know that sounds lame but w/e i guess. i have to go see that freakin counsler tommarow not for that for my anger, hate, depression. im gettin violant now not on purpose though it just happens.
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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oh.....i'm already in a school for girls with emotional disorders...but they don't help you there, so i'll be leaving soon. every year i get transfered somewhere else.....and they always seem to worsen my eating disorder.....well, depression and e.d.s go hand in hand...
Name: people
Country: U.S.A.
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yeah and the other day i was actulally gonna kill myself but my friend told that freakin counsler and yeah i see what you mean my mom blames me for all the prioblums in the family and how i should be ashamed to have a alcholic father and how its my fault of everything... so now im gonna have to go in some counsling b/c of the almost suicide and lets just put it this way i cant wait till i move out never never is he gonna hear from me again
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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especially when they blame you for ALL the problems...as if i could just "start eating normally tomorrow" and stop looking sad in public with her because it doesn't 'look' "normal." my...'mother'.
Name: to sad from people
Country: U.S.A.
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yeah it stinks haveing siblings and bad parents
Name: people to sad
Country: U.S.A.
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mine too she loves my brother and i hate him and admites to having him but says nothing of haveing a daughter. im the broken child of the world.
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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mine is embarrassed of me.....
Name: people to sad
Country: U.S.A.
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so you dont like your mom eighther? what i tell myself is, i am going to move out as soon as i turn about 21 that way i can get on a plane and move away and never talk or hear from her again. i am VERY suicidal and does she care?... no not even a little, she wouldnt i can never talk to her ever i never told her anything and never will. people tell me to try to talk to her but no its not like that no one can ever fix me and get me to like her the hate id to deep.
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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If it was any similiar, I'd think you were my twin.
Name: people to sad
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
so... your story is my story?
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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it's as if you just read a book about my "life" so far too.
Name: people to sad
Country: U.S.A.
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i am 14 and my mom doesnt give a crap about me and the threating issues i have i would hate to say it but i hate my mom and i am so stressed i passed out at the dance and thank god for the health teacher who got me out of there i have panic attacks and i have anger managment so freakin bad i acctually cut myself... i have sever depression so i am suicidal and my "mom" doesnt care tallk about dinial shes the one who freakin told me eating disorder people were selfish i know better now how can i belive a word she says people tell me to talk to my mom and tell her how i feel no its not like that i cant stand her!!!And i have add so bad i cant pay attenchon to my fav movie or show even when people talk to me,i cant listen. i dont have ocd, but i do want to die and that is a risk and i want to stop b 4 i compleat suicide... i am inching closer
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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I was diagnosed with: A.D.D. at 10, Severe Depression at 13, O.C.D. at 15 or 16, almost diagnosed with Asbergers Syndrome and Schizoid at one time or another, and I too have a crapload of not really anger, but frusteration, from the A.D.D. It just turns into like, thrashing anger. AND I have yet to be diagnosed with something else every 2 months. AND I've had an eating disorder for 2 and a half years. So many medications just screwed up everything, too.
Name: people to sad
Country: U.S.A.
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oh really, i was diagnosed with A.D.D depression, and have a case of sever anger management and as a side affect of deppression or anxiety i have panic attacks. were you diagnosed with it i am not tryin to be rude or nothing its just some people think they do but were never diagnosed like i was.
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
oh. i have all that and more.
Name: people
Country: U.S.A.
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i guess i know what you mean its like im not all there eighther. oh well i guess im just as not knowing what the heak im doing eighther suffering from anger managemen, deppression and add.
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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1), it's not a brain disorder. 2), I DID SAY IT HAD TO DO WITH OUR MINDS. but it's not a brain disorder. i don't know where you got that from. it is the way we see things that's DISTORTED-not wrong, or not there-, like i said in one of my previous posts. we can't be selfish because we don't even see what the hell we're doing. i know this now because i'm closer to recovery. so you can't blame us for having it since it takes control of us. NOT the other way around.
Name: people to shenia and all
Country: U.S.A.
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thanx Y DIDNT ANY ONE TELL ME IT WAS A BRAIN DISORDER I WOULD HAVE SHUT UP!! i didnt know all they saw was fat i thought they did it for good looks
Name: 2 people and all from shenia
Country: U.S.A.
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hmmmmmmm people you see, i know what you mean and i used to think that also so i know where you are comeing from and you all didnt need to yell at people eighther. you see people, they who have eating disorders do not see how thin they are getting. all they see is fat. it is a brain disorder what ever is sticking out on them is fat... not really it is how they see it. we see correctally, maby people were jealouse of their good looks and called thyem fat so they went on a diet that was unneeded... now that i dont agree with but they ushually have a brain disorder so they see things that are not there. see what i mean i respect your courage people you were only standing up for whats right! i bett some day you may be president of the u.s.a youd be a great one :)
Name: people
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
my friend promised me she would never go on one of those and she did so there for i am not friends with her.
Name: BannanaShannana
Country: U.S.A.
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Ok ''people'' just because your friend has an eating disorder does not mean you should stop being friends with her! What is the matter with you!?You should be helping your friends instead of being a selfish person REETARD!DO YOU HER ME!?YOU ARE MEAN AND YOU ARE JUST STUPID TO THIN PEOPLE WITH EATIN DISORDERS ARE SELFISH!WELL, YOU CAN JUST SHOVE IT UP YOUR FURRY BUTT!!!!!
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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that retort just justifies my points-which are the facts. and let me tell you something smartass; my aunt has an eating order and she's definetly not thin-she's very overweight. so how do you know whether we ARE fat or not-oh, you still haven't found a brain! my bad.
Name: people
Country: U.S.A.
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you mean a long walk off a short peer? mhmmmmm well i am smart i know better than to starve to death you all aren't fat, my friend has a eating disorder i just found out and so i am not her friend anymore.
Name: Luise
Country: Italy
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I agree with sad, like i said there is more to it then starving yourself and food! Robin and people, i'de like to see you two walk in my shoes and see the pain i endure with my eating disorder! I do NOT AGREE WITH PEOPLE!!! So Robin and ''people'', you can just go take a short walk off a long pier!
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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Eating Disorders aren't about food. They're about control. And God bless you on your hunt for a brain!
Name: robin
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
i agree with people.. sorry...
Name: people
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
oh yeah? well maby you eating disorder people should move to another country like africa where people would die to have that food and see what real hunger is like they have to eat bugs to survive.i mean you have all this wonderful food in front of you and you refuse to eat it?
Name: Chick_
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I need seriouse help..... I am a thirteen old girl, almost 14, and i am very thin. All my friends are always telling me i am aneorexic even though i eat alot, and they always tell me that i need o eat something!It gets to the point were it is embaressing, and i just feel like they think i starve myself to be thin, even my thin friends tell me i need to eat even though they see me eat a big lunch everyday!!!!!! It is sooo annoying and embaressing, please, PLEASE HELP!
Name: Kaydilla
Country: Korea
Comment:
Whoever wrote that people with eating disorders are selfish, they are really being selfish for saying that! My mom was aneorexic until she started to eat healthier korean food! I feel so bad for her, and she is NOT selfish!That person does ot even know what it is like, so just shutup if u cannot say anything nice!
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
we're not selfish. you just don't have a brain.
Name: Kaydilla
Country: Korea
Comment:
I just wanted to tell you girls not to worry about your weight! Do not count on the scales or bmi's to determine what kind of body you have!They are now saying bmi's do not work, so just do not worry.... one time my dad checked his bmi, and it said he was morbidly obese, but he really is skinny, just very tall!It matters what you think of yourself, i would know, because in south korea, girls are very skinny, i only weigh 85 pounds and i am almost 15, my mom is only 105 pounds! I am even pressured by my parents to lose weight, both of them speak english, but we are korean and eat korean...... it is soooo hard to see these skinny girls in south korea, ti is very upsetting to me of how thin we are expected to be here... but remember, it is what you think of yourself that counts.
Name: people
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
people with eating disorders are selfish! when there are so many other people out there starving in this world here u people with "eating disorders" not eating the food in front of you those people in other countrys would give anything to have that food and here u are throwing it up or not eating it!!!!! i hate people with eating disorders they should not do such a thing ohhh my i am soo alone and fat! no your not look at ya look at people out there starving be thankful for the food you have no im not saying get fat im saying eat a healthy amount. and yes fat people should go on a diet just not starve! >.<
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
how tall are you nomadai?
Name: Nomidai
Country: india
Comment:
My body type some people say it is perfect.....but i say it is far from that..i am suffering from bulemia and none of my family members know i am. im 15 years of age age an i wear 87 pounds
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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meh, i have that same problem. i am now 5'9 140 lbs. and will be 17 in a month. the problem is that i wasn't eating ENOUGH, so matter what i couldn't lose weight no matter how much i restricted. you see, we just need to have a STEADY 'diet' with variety of good foods, but not too little. don't deprive yourself of fat. fat doesn't make you fat. it's very important.
Name: meh
Country: Other
Comment:
meh again and i am 15 and a half
Name: meh
Country: Other
Comment:
hello people i have just came across this site well my hight is 5'6 i weigh 147 lbs i am so fat i do alot of exersise and drink some water each day i need help i am so fat help me plz email me if i dont get help i will be obese or i will stop eating
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
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well sadgirl, because you don't have an eating disorder, i think you should tell ur doctor that you just can't seem to gain weight no matter how much you eat. and don't be scared that everybody will laugh at you cause you're so skinny. ppl laugh when you're fat. they shouldn't, but the world is just that shallow.
Name: sadgirl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
well, i need advice because i am 14 years old and i weigh 85 pounds everybody from family saids that my body looks like it should be dead or they would say that i look like a snake the truth is when i look at the marrior i don't see me as a dead body or a snake i see myself as a beutiful model but but when i wear jeans then i start to worry because the jeans that i have doesn't fit me well u know it really fits me very big and i am a homebody meaning i don't go outside because i'm afraid that if i do people would start staring at me laughing at me because of how skinny i am and how my jeans doesn't fit me well like other girls and it really hurts me inside to have the feeling of not being able to go outside because of that reason look i am now going to high scool my first time and if im afraid of being outside where people would laugh at me then it would be worst in high school i belive i really want to gain weigh at leats 98 pounds but no matter how much i eat i would still be skinny and i want to make my mom proud because she is also suffering i really need advice so baaaaaaaaaad!!!!!!!!! please!!!!!!
Name: sad
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
the crash diet is one of the diets an anorexic uses. it is dangerous. of course. doesn't her mom know she's getting this thin? how tall is she? i know how it feels to be in her position, not believing that she's skinny, being freezing all the time, sleeping in that fetal position to keep yoourself warm, etc. i know how you feel too. there's a girl that's very tiny and she barely eats anything most of the time. she's anorexic of course. i wish i could make her see that she doesn't even look so skinny anymore, now she looks like an 11 year old because she has no womanly shape, anywhere. she's 15. i used to look like that too. it saddens you to see her yet you get frusterated cause she doesn't believe you. but i have a tip. if she ever talks about calories or diets, asks you if she looks fat, or brings up anything at all about weight and food like that, change the subject. don't just keep telling her she's skinny. i hope this helps. and if you ever need advice on how to talk to her or anything else, even that you're still worried, you can talk to me. i've also been on the bulimic side, too.
Name: cat
Country: Other
Comment:
my friend is on a crash diet & shes had this diet 4 a few months. im really scared. shes lost like 30 pounds. shes trying 2 get 2 85 pounds, but shes @ 87 & shes really mad cuz she cant lose the other 2. i feel really sorry 4 her, cuz whenever she sleeps over, & we order a large pizza, i have 2 eat it by myself b/c miss crash diet refuses 2 eat. b/c shes so cold all the time, i have 2 give her like 6 of our thickest blankets, but she still cant sleep unless shes in a pheetal position, which hurts her legs, but this diet is getting really old cuz her stomach continuously roaring in my face wakes me up @ 2 in the morning. i really wish she could see her 4 how i see her. bone thin! pleez help me! im really scared!
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
where has everyone been lately?
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
this may sound off, but does anyone know any good excercises 2 do for ur stomach so that when u start 2 eat again, it doesn't all just go 2 ur stomach and turn in2 fat?
Name: mahjabeen
Country: pakistan
Comment:
I want to give some suggetions to young girls when they feel pain before cycle they must use a mixture of hot milk and put an egg in it with out cooking one spoon oil and sugaralso add and take it they will surely get ride from the pain this is my experience
Name: Hunger to understand
Country: usa
Comment:
Hey one my name is sarah henderson, im 16 and in the 10th grade. im doing a research paper on eating disorders, and i want to add some real life storys to my paper to help my fellow class mates understand the serverity and dangers of eating disorders. Please help me! If your interested in shareing please comment back.
Name: Deathiam
Country: usa
Comment:
who cares anymore,i hate to eat i hate to look at myslfe,i just cant stick with it,i know what i should do and i know what i have to do so just everyone just needs to leave me alone
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
aszure ur bmi is about 19 or 20. you're still underweight, so don't worry! i know, it's really hard to start eating again. but keep with it. i can't gaurentee u won't have setbacks, because we all will, but just stick with it. you want to be healthy. am i right?
Name: deathiam
Country: usa
Comment:
i'm like 5'2 5'3
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
aszure, it's okay, how tall r u?
Name: deathiam
Country: usa
Comment:
i use to way about 55lbs now i'm just FAT!108 DOSENT LOOK GOOD ON ME!!
Name: person
Country: usa
Comment:
Hi everyone! I just wanted everyone in the world with eating disorders to never think that your fat. I'm saying this becasue your yourself, and you shouldn't care about what anybody else thinks of you. Theres only one you, and everyone is special and different in there own ways. Theres sothing different about everybody in this world. Having a eating disorder is not a good thing! Eating is fun sometimes if you think about it. I have a friend that has a eating disorder, shes a really nice girl but, shes very skinny and shes 11 and only ways about 55- 67 pounds. She dosnet eat lunch either sometimes. Everyone has to eat and you can never think of yourself as a fat person. Everyone is supposed to love their-selves but not speard it to the world like being conceeded or soething. I just hope that everyone gets better and learns something by redaing my artical and I hope everyone gets better and no one has to go under medication or shots/needdles. Trust me you don't want to.
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
ya,i dont even know what to say to anyone anymore,always worring about something going wrong,always looking at someone thinner then you and wishing you were that thin,well i gained about 7 pounds in the last couple of weeks,i feel better but i hate what i'm seeing,sorry about talking about one thing and then saying something compleatly diffrent just i'm all turned around right now,and Cass i'm glad you'er back,i missed you.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
i understand exactly how u feel, for i feel the same way. like there's nothing 2 anything anymore. what's the point...everythings just gonna go wrong.....and every time i think its turning around even just a bit, it turns around again and hits me full blown.......another failing attempt at trying 2 be right.........
Name: deathiam
Country: usa
Comment:
just i'm sick of everything,you know?
Name: deathiam
Country: usa
Comment:
i mean really,whats there to like?all i can do anymore is hurt,i cant love,i cant breath,i just cant make sence of anything anymore,everything is just sppining so fast and i cant keep up with it,life passes you by so fast,lifes easy,it's just breathing and getting hurt what makes it hard,but everything that's happening is just so hard,so much presure,you know?and umm Cass,since i dont know what your real name is,perhaps you's like to tell me now?weird time to ask,i know
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
no my mom dosent know,i dont live with both my parents,and i dont plan to talk to her about it,i would get help but i cant,i care alot about what people think i should look like,but mostly i care about what i think i should look like i do this to me because i hate everything about me
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
hey girls. i know it's absolutely not important what others think of u, but i have a different problem...that i think is keeping me from recovery. see i don't have this still because i care about what others think of my body. I don't like it. I hate my body. it's ME who i started 2 lose weight for.
Name: re:deathiam
Country: usa
Comment:
Azsure, hey it's me. I understand what you're going through, I went through something the same. I hurt myself hoping that would solve my problems, but sadly it didn't and continued to suffer. You know what happened that changed everything. Me understanding God's love. Then I saw that who cares what others think, God loves me and created me just the way I am. My body is His temple, He lives in me...so I shouldn't try to hurt myself because taht hurts God. Basically Azsure, you should get help. I don't want you to hurt yourself....try talking to someone about the way you feel. It sure helps to do that, I know....honestly, I was anorexic (I'm diving rocks) and yeah, it hurt me, it hurt others, and also it hurt God. Bulimia is the same way. Azsure please find help....I'll be praying for you. Love, Cass
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
ur explaining half of what I go through, so I can relate. ur parents know, right? would u mind going in2 an outpatient program?
Name: bulimicDeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
hey everyone,i havent been on in so long,and i havent read any of your guys comments yet but i will when i can,i was really into being bulimic i got preatty thin then i gained some wait looked helthy,but i've been doing the same things as befor,i dont know why,just i cant stand it anymore,people being so jugemental and mean,just telling you how ugly and fat you are it gets old you know?i use to try to help people on this but i just relized to help them i need help to,people here have been very kind to me and i apreacate it so much,nut i just cant stop,i hardly eat anything,i throw up everything i eat,and more,my bones hurt,i've been very depressed and cutting,just all my streagth has left my body,i know i'm probaly makeing no sence but if i am please help me,i never ask for help,but please,love Aszure
Name: Cassie
Country: india
Comment:
Sad, thanks for forgiving me. I was so stupid in what happened. About God not answering you, I was thinking about that just last night. God doesn't ignore you it's just in his time. We also have to be willingly listening. Sometimes the stuff around us pulls our eyes from Him and puts it on the stuff at hand. God is always there for us. He loves you, Sad. A lot. I know, it took me so long to understand that too. God created you beautiful, it's just our earthly minds that make us think we are fat or ugly. God wants you to feel like you're beautiful, one of his pretty daughters. Know that God cares and will always be there for you. Talk to Him, trust Him, seriously, it can help you through all the tough spots in your life. Love in Christ, Cassie
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
Yeah, God does want us to care about our looks, he loves us the way we are, he just wants us to be happy and healthy.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
Canujara, in India people ARE very thin. but that doesn't mean you HAVE to be like them. remember, God created us in His own image:which means He made us perfect, in His eyes.
Name: Canujara@33.I LUV
Country: india
Comment:
It ok, i can help u, but i am in pain casue my mum tells me i should walk more. I t is so hot here tho, so i can't walk, i wil burn up in da sun. I wish she wuld leave me alone, but she is actually my step mom, so i can not help it or my dad wil ground me if i do not listen 2 her.
Name: Coolchic91
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
Wel, i am pressured. mY friends r al on crash diets, so they pressure me 2 join, it kinda makes me feel obese 2 b around them, they do not know about my issues with food, no 1 knows!
Name: Canujara@33.ILUV
Country: india
Comment:
135 pounds is good! Wat r u talkin abut/? at least u r not pressured to starve ursekf, my mom tells me 2.
Name: Coolchic91
Country: usa
Comment:
Canujra, ur mom is crazy, u r very thin, i waz aneorexic for 2 yers, bt bulimia strucked me for half a yr, i was 89 pounds when i was aneorexic, now i am bulimic and i am 134 pounds, all my fat hangs out, it is UGLY!!
Name: Canujara@33.I LUV
Country: india
Comment:
IM fat, I lik ea t 6 meals a day, and i am bulimic. In india, all girls r thin, if ur a girl and 13, i am 13, and 100 pounds, you are considred fat, i am 108, and my mum says i ned 2 lose weight. My mum i s 90 pounds, seriosely! She encourages me 2 not eat more than 2 meals a day . no 1 know i am bulimic, tho, and god never ansers my prayerss
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
Sometimes sad, god does not answer thoes prayers beacuase he already thinks you are fine the way you are. I know what it is like to feel ignored by god, but he sometimes does that to teach us. I mean i pray i can get thinner without getting extreme, but god does not answer. But, i know why he does that, cause he already likes us, short, tall, thin, average, whatever, he just loves us anyway we are. And i wish i had known that befor i tried to lose weight.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
i didn't want to get involved, it wasn't my place, so i'm a bit indifferent to it. if you're ok w/ me then im ok w/ u. lately i've been been feeling like God has been ignoring me, and i've been EXTREMELY depressed. so i don't know what God ius planning for me but whatever he wants, i can't stop it.
Name: cassie
Country: india
Comment:
Yeah, that's right sad. You know what changed me from being anorexic? I mean like a year ago I was on here talking to you. Finally I understood how much God really loved me by watching the movie, Chrinicals of Narnia. I awalys thought I could stop on my own. but heck, once you get in to it you're like stuck. Even now I still have anorexic thougths. But listen. God loves me and I have given my eating disorder over to Him, He is helping me overcome my problems. I still worry about being fat, but God is helping me take baby step to being fully recovered. I haven't gained weight but I'm finally maintaining it..praise God. I still pray for you and I'm really sorry about what happened between Leer and me. I wish I could change history but I can't. Are we okay, Sad? Or are you mad at me too? Cassie
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
i came across a kind of message board for something else, and found a comment about a girl who had a friend with anorexia. her friend had recently died in the hospital. she was telling everybody to not be anorexic. and if i wasnt offended enough, she said that you dont know how much you hurt people when you do that. i was almost outraged. no one just decides to 'be' anorexic; when they are, they cant just stop. and it certainly does have an effect on your family and friends, but they are not the one with the problem, so an anorexic should not stop just because of the people. its about the individual themself.
Name: "Pink"
Country: usa
Comment:
"BECCABABY" you need to stop doing that to yourself. You are truly hurting yourself. I mean you are perfect no matter how big or tiny you are. My friend is Anerexioc and she ways 85 lbs. and is going into 8th grade. Now that's disgusting! Well, the point I'm trying to get at is that binging is really making you sick, which makes you look loke SH#$! You naw what I mean. I'm 130 and am in 7th grade. I mean I have to admit that sometimes I binge and starve myself, but not what you do. You need to get help, not in a mean way. I mean you can go mentally retarted for binging. I mean it! I know someone who died from binging. You can call this # that will help you to stop!, it is 1-800-Help-line. Please just call and get help. Even thought I don't know you I don't want you to get sick or even die. Please STOP! Thin isn't evrything, eveything is your personality. Take that to heart cause boys wioll be hate'in on you if you keep doing this to your body. Look at Paula Abdul she was anerexioc and bulimic for 8 years and has just recovered 1 year ago. You know all her teeth are fake because they rotted out. I know you don't want that to happen to you. P.S/ THIS IS FOR ALL THE GIRLS OUT THERE!
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
Yeah, food is like the devil, it tempts you, it says to go ahead and eat, even though we know better cause we are afraid. Sometimes, i am so hungry it hurts, it is food that tempts us and the people around us tempting us to be super skinny, and something that we do not need to be to have a good life. But alot of thin people are expected to stay that way, which leads to eating disorders, and just perfectly healthy people are expected to be like super beatifull and thin models, but most people are not feeling the way they look, that model ypu may look up to cause they are really pretty and thin could be pressured to lose weight, and that is why thin is out, but people like me care alot about being perfect, so it is hard.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
right. its not about the food. its about control. and we are so afraid that if we bulimics stop we'll just keep eating and get fat and cant stop. and we're so addicted to purging even though we hate it because of this fear.
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
Yeah sad, sometimes it's like no one understands. I mean when a friend of mine says they r aneorexic, i understand, cause i know what it is like. People just do not get it. lot of people think people with eating disorders just have issues and phocus on their looks alot. Which is not fully true. Bless every1, Irish
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
same here. when i was anorexic i was barely 100 pounds, and im tall. ive bee throwing up for a year and my parents make the nastiest comments. they're embarrassed of me so much because they think i'll screw up everything. but we should all remember: you can't undserstand an eating disorder fully unless you have one, or are recovering from one. no matter how much studdying you do. even if you live with someone with one, you still won't get it. so keep that in mind about parents. i'm still praying for us so we can find our own salvation girls. and guys if there are any who have seen this site.
Name: Jamy100
Country: usa
Comment:
I know what u mean, Becca, i lost alot cause i was aneorexic for 2 years. My parents don't care about how i feel, they just think i am ''depressed'' and ''insecure.''
Name: Becca Baby
Country: usa
Comment:
U r so thin! I read ur other comments, and u r a twig! I have been bulimic for the past 3 years and i lost over 54 pounds! Now i am aneorexic, and i go to a phicillity every day. The pple there are really nice, and help u gain back weight. But my parents don't seem 2 get it, they yell when i say i feel sick , they think while they are @ work i will eat everythin in the house and barf it up. Cause of bulimia, i lost evrything. My money, friends, EVERY frikion thing. But i gained back 20 pounds, and now i feel fatter, and i secretly purge up food, but i can't help it.
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
I need someones help. I feel soooooooooo fat. I just wanna stop eating, but i can't it is so hard. i eaat and eat, but i think i was better when i did not eat. I hate food so much, i wish i could just starve till i was thin, but if i try to eat, i get fat, and when i don't i feel like i can face anything, but i just don't know. Please help, irish
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
p.s-And ''Fatty'' from United Kingdom, screw thoes pple who make fun of u , do not worry about ur weight, pple worry about how they look 2 much, especially if u r aneorexic, i worry every frekion day if i eat more than 1 meal! Every day i worry! I am a compulsive overeater! I worry about calories, i count calories, overexcercise, and eat like no breakfast and a small lunch on weekdays!! it is like food loves me, but i hate it!
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad, u r right, i mean i think i am fat and i do sorta have an eating disorder, well i used 2 not eat, and i have been tempted 2 barf and starve myself. This is not a sight where u say help me lose weight, it is for pple like who actually know what it's like 2 starve urself, barf up food and compulsively overeat. I put my weight on this site and it is hard 2 share that i starved my self . I do not mind helping pple who think they r fat, but this site is 4 pple who hav a eatn disorder.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
ugh!!!!!!!!! oh...my...gosh.....this is an eating disoreder site! not a weight loss site! its not good to talk about how to lose weight here! i wish peole who come across this site who are looking for how to so that would know that this isnt how to lose weight. itjust makes us all feel bad about purselves when we discuss how much we weigh if we should lose weight.........
Name: Fatty
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
How much should i weigh? I am about 5'7 in height and weigh 11and a half stone!!!!!! I am ashamed to go out wearing what i like and often get picked on? I am going to loose weight but don't know how much it the ideal weight? Please help!
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
I had a problem with not eating enough, but now eat ALOT!I eat like a pig, and i only feel comfortable when people around me eat alot too, or elase i feel like a 95 pound pig, my tummy is so blubbery. I always kept it secret when i skipped meals, i was scared of what people thought.Please help, Irish
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
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Name: ?
Country: india
Comment:
Hey has anyone heard from Sad, DeathIam, or Leer?
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
It is really quite around here, i don't hear people alot coming on.
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
I would not say i am aneorexic, but i used to skip 2 meals and only eat dinner.But then i knew i could not eat, it is impossible, it is even harder when everyone around tells u u are a twig. But sometimes, i eat sooooo much that i wanna barf cause i feel bad about the calories. I weigh 95 pounds & 5''7, about. I sometimes don't eat breakfast cause i just do not have the time, i wake up @ 6;00 and take like 30 minutes 2 get ready. I am really jealouse of this girl, she is really really skinny and pretty and popular, and she eats ALOT!I wish i was like her, i am built different. It scares me how thin pple can b. I wish i could accept what i see, but all these girls r like twigs!! Bless every 1, Irish
Name: Remember me?
Country: usa
Comment:
Hi, I came here before, in fact Linda, Deathiam, and Sad were like all friends and stuff....I just want you to know it's like been a LONG time since I was on here....almost like 6 months, I first came on here a year ago... See I was fighting anorexia...and I was trying to fight it myself. But then I relized that I can do nothing on my own strength only through God. I just want to let y'all know that there is hope in the Lord....I then understood God's love....I'm not saying I don't struggle anymore. Research shows that it's a daily struggle to overcome it. But I see that God loves me and I can find hope in Him...He will fight this battle with me. I pray for y'all everyday and hope that you see that God's love for you is greater than this, trust Him! ......I know some of you may still be mad at me from that big fight we had like 6 months ago. But I just want that to be that past. Please pray for me, I need all the prayers I can get....Love in Christ, "diving rocks"
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
U know what i would do is yel at those doctors,what do they know about aneorexia and bulimia that is what i would ask them, cause if they are being dummys and being rude and selfish, than they do not know what they are frickion doing
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
thats exactly what i said to her. but my mom just wnats me to be over with this disorder just like that and thinks whatever i say is not true because i have problems.
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad, do not le those people treat you bad, screw thoes people if they are mot gonna care how u feel and what u have been through, just tell your mom how u really feel, tell her ''Those people are treating me like crap, and they do not understand how I feel,'' if they do not understand how u feel, then it is not worth the time being there. Bless everyone, Irish
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
i just wanted to let u know aszure that i actually was in an outpatient program at Mather hospital or clinic rather, and i was really excited. but the people there were so mean and they just didnt care how i felt at all. really. and my mom got upset because she didnt believe me and wants me to go back tomorrow but i cant go there for help when im treated like garbage. then she threatened to stop taking me to my e.d. therapist whos the only one who i can talk to. so once again im in the stage of no help. but im still praying, and im still praying for you, and im glad youve been doing better.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
i think society is the biggest of the 2 reasons for the cause of eating disorders. but lindsay lohan is actually not bulimic. it was a misunderstanding. but hilary duff and kate moss are getting too thin its disgusting.
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
I have some other things to say. Some of my thin friends say that they are fat, but now i will tell them thin is NOT in. All those skinny models who have no figure are giving people the wrong message by saying,''If you are thin like me and have no figure and are blonde and a size 0, you are the best looking, so starve yourself and be bulimic just to be thin like me!'' Wel, the onlt model that I look up to and think is not aneorexic is Tyra Banks, she is a model who isn't to thin, and doesn't think thin is in, but then there is Lindsey Lohan and Kate Moss and Nicole Richie and even Hilary Duff who actually think that they look beatifull being so scrawny, but they all probably have a disorder, Lindsey Lohan just said she was bulimic, so who will be next?Hilary, Kate, Nicole?Well, if any one thinks thin is in, you are so wrong!
Name: Irish_grlSK
Country: usa
Comment:
Gypsy, u r so right. I mean, I thought I was thicker than others at one point, so I went on a diet by counting calories. But then I told people I lost weight and it happened 2 worrie them, so I just said screw it, it is not worth my time, I thought again and thought, ''What if u get fat again?'' But then I thought, I was never fat to begin with. So, now i am starting to not care, but i still will be healthy if i eat right, but not give a crap if someone calls me fat, I have been worrying 4 2 long, but now I am finally realizing, no one is perfect, and I need to listen when people say I am thin, skinny, and don't need to care what I look like. I am happy, it is like I finally am free from dieting, when i thought i was fat, it was harder for me to accept myself. I dited way back, and i willl never diet again, becaue i am healthy and happier. DON'T ever listen to people calling u fat, it will not make them thinner. I too blame society, people who are perfectly thin r starving themselves, because woman and even men care 2 much about thinking thin is in, it ain't, being happy and healthy is in!
Name: gypsy
Country: usa
Comment:
i was anorexic for a few years and i don't starve myself anymore but i still stress over my weight. i started when i was 12 years old in 5th grade and i would always compare myself with other girls and my goals were almost impossible. i dont just blame the media, i blame society. some people really dont understand how sensitive women can be about there weight. not even just women, anyone who is sensitive. i thought all my problems in life would be solved by being very very thin. its ridiculous now, but i still obsess over my weight. i think the answer lies deep down inside ourselves. I realized i hated not eating, and trying to be something i am not. i was so skinny i didnt look good anymore. I had bought this beautiful dress that fit me when i was at normal weight, when i was so skinny and i couldnt wear it anymore, i realized how unhealthy i looked and it just didnt fit me, myself. do u actually want to be miserable and be skinny, or be happy being yourself?
Name: BulimicDeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
ya i know what you mean Sad,the only help i can acaully tell anyone who comes here and wants to lose weight dont do it like i did dont hurt yourslfe like i did if you want to lose weight do it the right way,being bulimic or anoercix dose not help you,people think when you go anoercix it will be so easy to lose weight but your body eats your musel frist,so anorecix dosent help you to lose weight it helps you to kill yourslfe,now dose anyone here wanna die a very slow and painful death,,because of trying to lose weight?now i cant say anything about being bulimic since i am,i was stupid enough to look at other girls and say how pretty they were and so thin,i wanted so bad to be like them,but why?why would i want to look like them,i'm still not gonna be happy,ya maybe i'll have a nice this pretty body but is it really worth feeling horibble?but then you can do it the right way,have a nice stronge helthy body,be thin,and not feel horible..if i would have thought about it like that when i was 11,when i started,at least i would be just alittle hapier,i'm not a very happy person anyway and it's not because of how i look,not anymore,i'm 90 pounds right now and i can still see just about every bone in my body,i got so thin once it just hurt,all over,so please do me a big big favor and please dont hurt yourself like i did,nobody deserves to have to go threw that because of looks,you are fine just the way you are,and if you'er over weight just say oh well and exercice and eat right,and dont get down about it,just say okay i'm over weight,and?why should i care what others think about me,and just go about your day like "oh well,i'm just as good as you"just be happy with yourslfe,you'll lose weight and not feel bad about it if you do it the right way,please think about what i just said,maybe it will make sence to you,maybe not,but at least you will think about it,Love Aszure
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
i like helping people here but this site is really not 'how to lose weight.' its an eating disorder site for anorexics and bulimics. it gets annoying when im reading everyones comments and cries for help and i find a comment like 'im so fat, help me lose weight.'
Name: Jacey a. ROX
Country: usa
Comment:
Person, you are right, i hate the way i look, i am 5'4 and 85 pounds and i am 14. I got blubber everywhere, i have huge thighs, i were 12's in girls, and M in shirts in girls. People call me aneorexic just cause my sister was in highschool, but i eat like a pig! I wouldn't call myself fat, just a little more than others have. Am i fat?
Name: Person
Country: india
Comment:
Not everybody likes the way they look, so do not be calling people effers, people can either like the way they look or don't, so let that be their buisness.
Name: IM NORMAL
Country: usa
Comment:
Y'all are seriously effed up, like if i saw you i think id just laugh at you. God you people are so lame, deal with the way you look. Im gonna go eat my massive dinner now. EFFERS.
Name: Why cant I lose weight
Country: usa
Comment:
I dont know what to do Im 16 5''8 and I weigh 230 I need help I dont know what to do I want to go back to being skinney can some one help me it hurts so bad.
Name: harley
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
i am rilly fat so i want to lose some waight because i like to eat a breakfast i have 2 full sets and lunch 4 kababs and 4 dinner 3 chicken kar,as
Name: ske
Country: usa
Comment:
nope, i am not bukimic or aneorexic,
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
is there anybody here who is just bulimic?
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
you are so underweight
Name: I am obiese
Country: usa
Comment:
I am fat, i will not compare to other girls, 95 pounds and i am 5''7. I am fat, please help me see that i am not.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
i did say just telling her shes not fat wont work. she has to learn it herself and want to stop.
Name: Oops
Country: india
Comment:
I messed up my 1st letter here, i am not from the us, idia is what i meant, and yeah, hurting
Name: Thank u
Country: usa
Comment:
Dear sad, thank u 4 your help, but she will not stop, me and my friend always tell her she is not fat, but she won't ever listen. She is 130 pounds, but she is nor fat nor thin. She is fine, she always worries about the way she looks, andshe is always commenting me, saying how thin and pretty am, it bugs me cause she needs to stop comparing herself to me and my friends, but she can't stop.,Hurting
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
hurting, im sorry but if your friend has an eating disorder, she truely believes she's fat and wont believe ANYBODY. its a disease and its a LONG road. i know it's sad to watch, but she wont recover until SHE believes she's not fat and wants to stop. just be supportive of her but dont encourage her to throw up or hurt herself.i wish you and her luck.
Name: BulimicDeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
I was just reading threw old comments and that thing about eating whatever you want and not gaining weight,that i soposidly said,i dident say that,it was someone else,however i do know ways to eat whatever you want and not gain weight,just exorcice,i perfer yoga,it's real come and idk,i just like it,like if you get a yoga ball,well at wall mart they'er called body balls,instead of useing a chair at the computer use the yoga ball(body ball)just bounce on it,you can do sit ups on it and everything,they have a lil paper inside telling you all thease difrent ways to use it for difrent things,like your inner thies,and abs,and everything else,well best of luck to you all,Love Aszure
Name: Hurting
Country: india
Comment:
Hi it's me again, how do you tell someone they aren't fat without them denying it? I can't help my friend, she won't listen, she starves herself and is bulimic. She even admitted it, i pray that she will accept herself, but she won't. Heeelp!!!! Ske
Name: Hurting
Country: india
Comment:
My friend is bulimic, and thinks that i called her fat, and she callled me bulimic, it hurt me, please help me give her advice, because she is NOT fat!
Name: BulimicDeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Hey everyone,i know i havent been on much,but like wow,i gained somwhat of weight but i lost it over the in a few weeks,i acually weighs like 128,Linda thought that as like perfect for me,then again she acually saw a pic of me when i weighd that much i way 90 right now and i feel like horible,do hurt yourslfe,no matter what people say that's just their opinion,scerw what other people say,think about what you think of you,and you people are so not !!!FAT!!!just,idk,love Aszure
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
im not thin, i weigh almost 160 lbs! and im 5'8! i used to be so much thinner when i was anorexic, now im bulimic and i hate eating but i love it at the same time. ugh! my fat just sticks out everywhere, its so extremely disgusting! but its too hard to stop eating because i starved myself for so long but ive had enough! every day i plan out what to do but every day it gets so screwed up. every freakin day! i have prayed many many many many countless times and im getting no help from Jesus, and ive asked Mary to ask her son to help me, for sooooooooooo freakin long! my dad makes fun of me too and says i make all the foof disapear in the house and sometimes make it reappear in the toilet. i dont eat all the food! i know im fat, but i dont eat everything! and i try to exercise, believe me, i do. i lift weights, do crunches, and different kinds of leg lifts, but i still cant lose wight! my body is so.........................................disturbing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Name: Judy101
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad, Ally, My secret, Ci Ci, Ugliness, and Shana100. U are so thin. Sad, you are thin !! Ally, where do I begin, god you are like so thin you are invisable. My secret, how the heck are u so skinny! Ci Ci, you need to gain weight, man you are thin. And, uhh Shana100, EAT. U are thin god, how is that possible that u are all that thin. I am 107 pounds and 5'6 I am fat! And, uhh Can i help anyone, you are as thin as thin can get. OMG, you all are just,THINNN!!!!!!! U all are just a bag of !!!!
Name: My secret
Country: usa
Comment:
Dear Sad, I know exactly how to help you, even though you are so thin!, 5'8 and 115. wow, you are thin. I am a teen, and I am 13. I weigh 95 pounds and I am 5'8 , and let me say, I never usr to way that less. I use to be in 5th grade 5'3 and 80 pounds, and in 6th grade 5'5 and 117 pounds. I never thought I was fat until my BFF told me her half brother and her non blood related brother called me fat and ugly. I took it very seriousely and tried to loose weight. I ate alot and excercised little and it did not help me. I told my dad, and he got furiose and said I was pin thin. Then, i found out what my BFF's half and non related brother said was a lie, she just misunderstood what they said and wrote in their journals. But it still haunted me, how would i loose weight? I now thought I was fat, so i started to eat better in the summer of '05. I lost 10 pounds,and then was 107 pounds, then 104, then 102, then 98, and now I am 95 pounds, i also got taller which helped my weight. See, when you get taller all that baby fat is stretching and going insead of in your thighs or tummy, it basically grows out. Once you are taller, when you are older you get thinner. But that is not my secret. I will tell anyone who needs this help. I workout for about an hour a day. What you do is you eat light in the morning or skip breakfast, eat a nutriciose light lunch, and eat a large dinner before 6:00, or 3 to 4 hours before you go to bed. After each meal, workout for 20 minutes. If you work out for an hour, you are burning 300-400 calories. With each meal, drink water, it will make you less full. See, when you drink pop or juice, it fills you up, which leaves you with a small appetite and an achey belly if you totally stuff yourself at dinner. For a workout put on some hip hop or rap that will really make you dance, don't put on some old music or slow music, you need fast, energizing music. Some dance moves to tone the tummy are the shimmy, the criss cross for the legs, the split/ neal for the legs, the twist fot the pan handles and abs, the drop/ pop when you croach to the floor, the as you rise do the pop, and other moves. To get an idea of these dance moves watch music hip hop videos to get some dance moves. Some workout moves are the crunch, the butterfly, sit ups, the medicine ball bend when you take a 6 pound medicine ball and bend while holding it. I like to call this yoga move, the spider to make you more flexable and toned, you bend your waist and stretch out you legs and hold that position for 30 seconds, stand up, and do it again over and over. Eat alot of tuna, eggs, and do not forget carbs, you need carbs for energy. Drink water alot, and these tips will help you loose weight, they helped me loose 22 pounds. Hope i helped, S.Kathleen.E.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
wow. you girls that say, "you are all thin and im fat," you're not. i wish that i could be that skinny. being 100 pounds at 16 is my dream. it is absolutely not fat. 20 years old and 120 lbs? wow, thats thin. 5'7 and 101 lbs? omg, how do u do it? you're so skinny, dont throw up. anyone who's 95 lbs at 5'10 is absolutely, positively, without a doubt, SKINNY! how do u get that skinny? please tell me ally! i am 5'8 and almost 160 lbs. i used to be anorexic, but turned to bulimia and binged a lot. now its extremely hard. ally please tell me how you keep your weight so low!
Name: Can I help anyone?
Country: usa
Comment:
EAT all of u. U all are skinny. I am fat. I am 16 yrs old and 100 pounds. Now that is fat.
Name: Ugliness
Country: usa
Comment:
I am so depressed. I hate my self. My parents just were divorced and the love of my life has to move to a new state in order to be a lawyer. I am gaining weight so much. I eat likechips, pop, candy, bagels and cream cheese, tco rolls, and other greasy foods. I am 20 years old and I am 120 pounds. I feel ugly. My fiance, he still calls me now and then, but now that he is in another state, i feel lonely and depressed. Please help.
Name: You are all thin
Country: usa
Comment:
Sorry, I meant I graduated from highschool.
Name: You all are thin!!
Country: usa
Comment:
All of u are thin, please don't kill urselvs, you are thin. And Ally, you are very thin. Your BMI is very very low. I am 19 and weigh 110 pounds and I am 6''1. I uzed 2 b aneorexic for a few years, but then as soon as I went 2 the doctor one day and he weighed me and I was 90 pounds, he suggested I gained 10 pounds. I refused, but then I was graduating from college, and I had to have an xxs robe, and that is when i stopped being aneorexic. Know I have a boyfriend and he helps me eat good and ecourages me every day 2 eat but stay eat healthy. He is studyin to be a doctor/nutritionast. He really helps me. He said every woman is beatifull no matter waht size,hope i helped, love Ci Ci( Diana)
Name: Alliha9(Ally)
Country: usa
Comment:
I am 15 years old and 95 pounds& 5''10.I am so so fat!When i was in 5th grade, all my friends started 2 hate me cause they thought i was fat, and they all were beatifull and thin, in 5th grade i was 75 pounds. Then when i was in 7th grade, i started a diet that waz crap cauze I could not eat bread, yogurt nothin but these gross energy drinks that made me break out and made me gain all of this water weight that I did not need. My mom and step dad said my weight was out of control, she said that i was too thin, and made me eat these bars that were 650 calories a bar. I had no way out, so every day when i got home, i barfed it all up and then weighed myself. I was 105 pounds, so then for 3 years i was bulimic. I lost 35 pounds. i got very sick and had to go to the hospital. My parents did not know what was wrong with me then i fessed up and told them that i had an eatind disorder. they were really mad. I recovered over the summer but now i eat little and excercise. What should i do? I want to lose weight. How? I am on this really good diet when you eat ealthy, and occasionally eat sweets, but excercize. It works soooo well, but it is soo hard to do it. Pleaze help, Ally
Name: Shana100
Country: usa
Comment:
U all are thin, I weigh 101 pounds and am 5'7 . Is that bad? Well, Iv'e been told i was thin, fat, average, I don't even know what size I am. Thin, fat, perfect?It is hard 2 tell, I mean, sometimes I think I am at a healthy weight, and other times I think that I am thin. And back in the summer in 2005, I tried so hard to lose weight. Well..., I have lost 15 pounds. It feels great, but yet I think it is not good enough. What should i do? i sometimes (still) excercise ALOT!!!!!, and eat little. But, every one is perfect, no matter what size.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
my e.d. therapist told me something very important that i believe is true:it's not about the food. it's about CONTROL. im getting some help in an intensive outpatient program that i really hope will work soon. i still pray for u girls and myself and i know some day we can recover, all of us.
Name: Working through this
Country: usa
Comment:
Hey every one <3 I came upon this site while looking for song lyrics. I've been bulimic for almost two years now. I've gone from 134 to 105. My family keeps a very close eye on me ever seance they found out about my disorder about a year ago. So over the past few years I've been kinda off and on with this disorder. All I have to say to you girls is that we all know this is killing us. We all know it's hurting though's around us. We all know we're doing this for more than just the sake of losing weight. It's much deeper. And yet, we continue on this way, like it's got some control over us. I hope and pray that some how we can all come through this. Because suicide is no way to live, or die. And that's exactly what all this is, a slow suicide. I love you all, mary* Your weaker than you want every one to think... But your stronger than you know* ~So much love to you all*
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
you know,this place is really adicting otherwise i probaly wouldent be here but oh well i'm glad i am,well sad i'm 11,i have to go i only wanted to say hey and make sure everyone is doing okay well perhaps i'll stop by later and acually say so,mething besides this,bye
Name: cat
Country: Other
Comment:
yay! i cant believ im underweight. i thought i wuz overweight 4 my figure.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
aszure how old r u? its goog ur not leaving. im going into an intensive outpatient hospital for my e.d... hope it works.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
cat your BMI is 19. you're below average. you're fine! you're better than fine, you're below. i wish i was underweight.............................a perfect weight would be around 125 for you.
Name: Someone
Country: usa
Comment:
i just don't know were to go i've been well "spitting" out my food for like a year i can't really stop cause every time i look in the mirror and all i see is a fat 14 year old girl starring back at me
Name: cat to sad
Country: Other
Comment:
sad, i am 5'6".
Name: whitney
Country: usa
Comment:
umm..i just need some help im 14 and i need to lose about 42 pounds i weight 142-143..if any one out there has an anwser please send me a email or something!! thank you so much
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
You know,i dont think i should go with out acking all of you want you think.t wouldent be right of me to leave and not help out,i'm sorry
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
how tall r u cat?
Name: cat
Country: Other
Comment:
i think i am fat when i know im not. i weigh 120 and im only 12! do u think i should go on a diet?
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
its been kinda quiet here lately. tension much?
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
hey everyone,what's up?i'm not gonna be writing on this page anymore,i'm sorry and all but i just cant,some of my problems i'm just gonna have to work out myself,and if i cant then oh well,it isent your guys problem,people get to atached to people they dont know,like i have,Hello is right,we arnt perfect,no one is.so stop trying to be,eating disorders you get them because you are unhappy with yourself,and you just dont care what happens anymore,you usally get them if you want to lose weight or it helps you deal with emostinal pain and stress,and life,and misary and the though of everyone else being so like just about perfect,and you'er sad becuase you cant just go on prtending nothings wrong,you cant pretend,so you do other things to help you deal,i know that's why i became bulimic,i wasent like everyone else,i couldent just forgive and forget and binge eating helped me deal with it,like when people cut,they cut to deal with emotinal pain..i know this probaly isent makeing sence to you,but maybe it will someday..Bye,Love Aszure
Name: Hello
Country: india
Comment:
I can't believe some of you are complaining when you seem very skinny. If you think 115 pounds is fat then you have serious problems. Just realize you will never be perfect..no one is!! Even if it might seem like it, everyone has their flaws. For example I don't like my thigs and I wish they were skinnire, but I know that I will never be perfect. I guess you just have to deal with it.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
you're flat or fat?
Name: not necessary
Country: canada
Comment:
I stoped eating to make my self skinny i stoped for like 4 monthes and its been on and off for like 4 months after that i got so skinny that my own familly was teasing me about how i was going to fade away my mom would cry over me every day and pray that i would stop killing my self i quit after almost dieing and then again after i gained weight i almost died again by my heart working to hard after some time later i decided to push my luck again and stop eating after 2 months i ended up in the hospital on life suport and then after rehab. now i am flat and unhappy with my decition to risk my life.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
do you bulimics ever bake things and binge on them? i do, and i compulsively keep doing it even though its not what i want but i want food and theres nothing i like in the house, or i want something different, or i cant find money to go to 7 11 and get something. i really cant stop no matter how many times i do it or tell myself nt to. ill either end up crying about it, or throwing it up. yet i cant stop........
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
and if someone only has an e.d. for less than year, they really dont have one, or its just not a strong one. eating disorders last quite a LONG time. not just for a little bit of a year. im going to my psychiatrist on tuesday and going to ask him about prozac. Prozac is supposed to help with bulimia. so ill be praying for that, and still prayin for all of us poor girls who are suffering from these demons in our head called eating disorders.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
im not beautiful.
Name: lou loubear
Country: united kingdom
Comment:
hey i sorta jus stumbled accross this site by accident wen i was doin hw. My best friend was abnnorexic for a while last year but she managed to get ova it now with the help of doctor s n support from every1. I have to say it was one of the wrost times in my life so far( im 15). Watchin a friend or someone u know do that to themselves is the horriblest thing you can imagine!! It is just as bad for friends as it is for the victim. Annorexia is like a second person tha interferes in your head almost like another conscience and u ahv to ignore it!! Wat your seein isnt you and you ahve to realsie you are doing major damamge to yourselves by not eatin or making yoursleves sick. All your friends and family love you sooo much n this is makin me cry to talk about because it brings it all back but tis soo important to tlk to some1 about your problems your mum or neone u can trust!! your all beautiful, please remember that!! xxxxxxxxx
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
that is so how i feel. i used to be real skinny too. i was 101 lbs. at 5"8. im still 5"8 but now im more than 30 pounds heavier. i cant stop eating. i feel unexplainably guilty and HAVE to get rid of it. i feel even more gulity when i cant get rid of it! it's horrible. i feel like i dont even have an e.d. sometimes cuz im not sickly skinny.........anymore...
Name: tumbler
Country: usa
Comment:
sad oh my that is how i am and i used to be way anorexic i was like 83 pounds at 5 foot. I was so skinny then i started getting better then i fell into bad bulimia. I don't know why either its like i want to give it up but then i can't like i am so used to the binge purge cycle that no matter how hard i try its like i find myself just eating and eating then throwing up its like a comfort thing almost like i love food but i can't control myself.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
i am just like that tumbler. every day i come home form school, go to 7 11, buy a pint of ice cream or something else, eat it, then throw up. sometimes i dont even throw it up. im not anorexic anymore, and i HATE bulimia sooooooo much. i feel like the biggest, fattest pig in the whole world.
Name: tumbler
Country: usa
Comment:
i don't know if any of you here are really bad bulimics. but i have been throwing up probably 7 times a day and i go to the store and spend so much money for food and eat it all then throw up. i don't know how to stop i am even going to therapy and just find myself lying because i am scared to admit the truth. someone please help me??
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Sorry I haven't been on in a while :(. lilblue, if your really over wieght, not just you think you are then get outside have some fun! How old are you, if your in school you can always go out for a team! Don't think what others think about you and be yourself. How much do you weigh? That will help me to help you better. Well I must go, my sis and I turned 15 today, I gots to go get ready for my party! i luv yall all, and am praying always!
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
hey who stole my name? lol
Name: lilblue
Country: usa
Comment:
i think that linda is the won that give advice. i new so how do you now what to do HELP?????
Name: lilblue
Country: usa
Comment:
i am overeating and i don't know why is it because i am in the house all day. i'm scard because i think i am going to some thing dume i use to work out and did relly go now i dont have any goal to do it my frist goal was to go to hawaii on a field trip but it never happen i need help for what can i do!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
my sister think it ok to trowup because it help you to lose weight, but i think she is going to get sick and how can i help to stop her to stop doing that
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
my sister think it ok to trowup because it help you to lose weight, but i think she is going to get sick and how can i help to stop her to stop doing that
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
thanks. i hope i do get it too. im like a compulsive eater now. its horrible.....
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Wheres everybody at latley? I hope you do good sad
Name: DaethIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
well it's acually called a body ball,but it's the same thing as a yoga ball but if you get a yoga ball it cost more but it is the ecact same thing and my body ball thing was only like $12 so it's affordible...
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
that yoga ball sounds very useful. how much would it be? my moms all worried about the cost and crap.
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Amen sister preach it! Sad your fine so stop thinking all these crazy things, we all care about and don't want you sick, always praying, Linda
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
the reason you probaly cant stop eating is because your body craves food,you just cant take it away from it,you would probaly would have to work into that,DONT YOU DARE GET ANY IDEAS,you dont need to stop eating,you'er fine,you acually need to start eating MORE!
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
thanks Aszure. ive actually been throwing up a lot more recently because i feel indescribably guilty! how come i cant stop eating?!!!!!!
Name: DaethIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
lol,well i got mine at a wallmart,and yes a yoga ball is somthing you do exersices on,and it holds up to 300lbs so well even the bigger people can use them,but i love my yoga ball and my mother loves her yoga ball and a yoga ball is great thing....i hope you get one
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
thanks linda. where would you get one? im sorry i ask too many questions lol.
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
A yoga ball is one of those big balls you do exercises like sit ups on. Has anyone heard how concerned mommy is?
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
thanks, but whats a yoga ball?
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
oh i dident mean to say fat i ment flat...
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Acually what would help alot is a yoga ball,Sad you shouldnet stop eating ya sure your stomic would be fat but you would look so gross,you would be able to start to seee like every bone in your body,and you would be week and disy...dont make yourselfe sick,just get a flat stomic the right way....you might be able to enjoy yourselfe more if you just exercice,but if you go anorexic you wont endoy it,you would be to sick to enjoy it...
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
A flat stomach has nothing to do with how much you DONT eat. You can be skinny and not fit. Just do alot of crunches and exercise it really makes a flat stomach, not starving yourself. My friend she always has been thin but never had a flat stomach but she did cheerleading and now she does. You just have to be more active, and you can't eat less or you wont have the energy to workout so eat a HEALTHY diet and just exercise. It doen't have to be pain just get outside and runa round with your friends. My friends and I love to walk alot. Well I'm praying for you, your getting so much better, don't give up. Luv always Linda
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
aw thanks linda. but i really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really want a flat stomach soooooooooooooooooo bad...............
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad, we don't want you to not eat, u were getting so much better....Don't give up I'm prayign for u. Luv, Linda
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
how do i just stop eating for a day?
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Man,school sucks,ALOT!oh well,what's up people?how's everyone doin?PLEASE START SAYIN STUFF!i'm bored and well people talkin on this thing keeps my mind on somethin...
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Is anyone here? Anyone need help with anything?
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad,well my sister is 5'8 and she looks good at about 135-140,but a better weight is probaly about 160 like linda said..
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad, for 5' 8" a good weight is about 160. Thats about what my doctor told me I should be at, my hieght and I'm 5' 7". Well Talk to everyone soon, bye Luv Linda.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
concerned mommy, Aszure is right. get her to a hospital soon, before it's too late. thanks Aszure, im glad u agree. no one called anybody a devil worshipper here. does anybody know prayers to St. Jude or St. Monica? i could really truly need them. God's not answering my prayers right now and i need answers NOW. and, what do you think is a good weight for someone who's 5 ' 8?
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Sugarandspice123 U do have someone to talk to now. Me I'm here to help you, I may not know personally what your going through but I have seen it first hand. Remember you can stop if you started and if you truly want to....I'm praying for you, luv Linda.
Name: sugarandspice123
Country: usa
Comment:
i have been struggling with anexoria for about 6 months and i need help can someone help me i have no one to talk to.....
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Thanks for forgiving me yall. Well Worried mom, hows things going with your daughters, I'm praying for you. Luv Linda
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Wait...dident Cass say that she made up the name Cass so if anyone she knew came here they wouldent know it was her?But like ahh,this is so confuseing..
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Hey everyone,it seems like what you people are doing is being stupid,Lets see here,Linda dident say you were a devil worshuper Cass,she said"what's next you being a devil worshuper"dident say you were,she was just useing it as an example,so you people need to STOP!all of you,the only person here acting responsible are the people that need help probaly the most but how can anyone get help when all you guys are doing is fighting and hurting each other mentaly,it's kinda hard to talk to you guys anymore,and everyone who has been here but just came in the middle of this very childest fight i'm sorry about it..you came here for help but all you herd was people fighting,and i cant apoligize for what other people have done since i am not them,but i am sorry,so Jake ever think your ex-gf maybe needed alot more help then you gave her?dumping her isent gonna help her any,you'er being so selfe centerd,concernd mommy well i think you should put you child in a hospital were she will be helped it seems like you dont have much control over your kid,no offence or anything,so even if she dose get mad at you for it at least she wont die,her doing this to her selfe is very deadly,dont you rather want to see her grow up more and not die?my mother and sister are both anorexic,my mother has medicantion for it,and with out it she wont eat..well i cant think of anything else to tell you,and there is only so much i know since i am only 11..i have tried the whole anorexia and all but it made me very very weak,and since i do gymnastics i need the stranth,so do me a fav,k?help your child..i mean really really help her dont just talk to her about it,if she isent eating put her in a hospital,even if she says she hates you she wonte mean it,when she gets older she'll understand why you would have done it..Sad,i thank you for being here you seem like the only person right now that is helping everyone,thanks so much..Love Aszure.
Name: i know cassie
Country: usa
Comment:
linda, thanks, i guess i didn't see your comments. cassie is right here and she says she forgives you. she says she understands what you are going through... not totally but she cares and understand about the bad week thing. she says her life is real hectic right now so she won't be coming back for a while... but she wants you to know that she is praying for all of you and that she cares for all of you. on a humerous note, she says, "linda, teenage girls sure know how to fight." ha ha! well, now with that behind us, cassie says. make sure you don't give any pesonal info out, i mean with that freako jack out and others out there too. love, cassie (diving rocks) and cass (her friend) kind of confusing i know so diving rocks is really CASSIE and me i'm cass. k? me, cass might come back along with cassie, we both care and want to help these people. linda, asure, sad, and all take care of youself, k? no more fighting okay? :)
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
And I don't live in NC but W.Vergina, gawsh if u have to know like cass I didnt want yall to know cause there are freaks out there and some on this sight
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Jake ur a freak, this isn't a hook up website but to help people its people like you who ruin this website people need help so stop it and go away!
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Yall who in the world "knew me"? None of yall know me so stop and grow up I'm trying to help people and your just ruining this website, why dont u go away, I'm paying god helps ur lost soul!
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
What? I said I was sorry right below what u wrote. Please don't freak I'm not mad at anyone so nether should u. Please just move on. I said I was sorry and I wanted Cass to forgive me. And other people please don't think this is a "chat" site its a helping site, I;m here for anyone.
Name: i know cassie
Country: usa
Comment:
STOP IT! You guys are being so immature. Can't you just forgive and forget. i pray you do. My friend Cassie forgives and she is praying for you as we speek. please start acting like semi-adults and get a move on and see that we should be more mature and godly in the way we act? please, you guys, please, grow up. Linda, i pray you come on and see what you have done just by your simple words. for some reason someone is mad at you and some other people don't know what's going on and cassie and i are jsut out here, praying so are azsure and sad. linda learn from this experience and forgive. okay? i care about my friend and i care about you, i care about this site and pray you all come to this decision; to forgive and forget!
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Cass, I'm sorry for what I said, I guess I got a little like I dont know confused. I'm glad you didn't put your real name, there are some freaks out there and you should never let anyone know to much. I'm so sorry I just wish everything could go back to the way it was. When we came here to help these people. I should of never been so rude I guess I was having a bad week at school and never should of took it out on you. Can things please go back to normal? Will you forgive me? If not I understand but please stay here and help these people, you know what they're going through and your strong with the Lord. I'm sorry and I should of been a better Christian. Everyone please don't think that we're here to "chat" please let us help you. I may not have a disorder but I do have problems with my weight to the point I feel dipressed and I've been there when my two best friends went through this, If I can help anyone so they don't have to go through what my friends did. No one should. Love Linda.
Name: no more linda!
Country: usa
Comment:
NO MORE LINDA! SHE'S A MEAN HOG! SHE SAYS SHE CARES BUT WE KNOW BETTER, LINDA SHE STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE. NO MORE LINDA, LET US ALL FIGHT! i am the person who wrote all those bad words, aren't i the coolesst? as for linda, i know you, or knew you i should say, you were mean to me so i'm trying to get back at you.
Name: x
Country: usa
Comment:
yo, i'm jake again. um, i dumbed my girl friend the skiny one. does any fat girls want me? i have a lot to give, oh yeah! i read all these comments and lina you sounld like a very nice girl, i like you and you live in NC right. if you 're interested write me. come on swwet stuff, i like fat girls, they are nicer and lessser considerate about their body. plus they do awesome stuff with me at night, hint. linda, are you interested/ hey what's your phone number? jake,
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Concerned mommy, I'm so sorry for what your going through. How old is your daughter? She could be bothered at school about her weight and this could be a reason. Have you tried sitting her down and talking to her telling her how you feel and how much i worries you and your husband? She doesn't need bribes but love. But if she still doesnt eat get her help. I may not personally have a disorder but I've been there for friends and I do suffer from being obese. It might not make your child happy to make her get help but in the end wouldn't you rather have her mad at you for a little while than having her not eat and being sick. Lesson to sad, she knows what she talking about. I'll pray gor your daughters and you and your husband, your in a tuff place now and I hope things get better, love Linda.
Name: never eat
Country: usa
Comment:
soory, last tiem i put country india, because i forgot to put it on usa, i from usa yes, i don't eat food, food hate me, hate food i, you know what i talk about on it seems you dont write back cass, i hope you okay it seem you have fight with other girl i still need help would you hlep lplease anyone since cass dont write me back please help me i need help i nine and dont eat much food i 4'10' and 50 poundies, inneed helpppppp anyone help me please, but someon who udnerstand, linda don' tunderstand, sad or zurg ciould you help me o plerse
Name: i know cassie
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad girl, I know Cassie, she an awesome friend and just want to show this Linda girl to drop these argument and name calling. She is so mean to Cassie and calling her a devil worshiper was real smart, not! Listen, I’m not here to fight with you or this site or Linda. I just want to help out my friend here, I saw her and she was really down. I asked, Cassie what’s wrong. She told me about this site and what happened. I felt so bad for Cassie and so mad and Linda I had to give her a piece of my mind. Cassie said she doesn’t want to come to this site again and be hurt by you guys again. You should see her now, she won’t eat… she eats like nothing each day and now she’s eating less since she got this… yea, so basically I’m the person talking for Cass. So what if she told you to call her Cass, whatever! Cassie/Cass, does it really matter? See we’re both were named Cassandra; and I call her Cassie and she calls me Cass. Okay? Does that make that lying when she wrote Cass rather than Cassie? Sad what I ment by that was: I’m saying the words didn’t effect my friend, Cassie. Though she is called mean names you should see her, she is forgiving through this all. She has gone on and put this behind her. But still even though on the outside she fine, it doesn’t mean on the inside that she’s hurting. I came up to her bed room and saw her sitting on the floor cring. I’m here for Cassie and that’s it. I don’t know how this fight started. Just Linda started calling Cassie names and Cassie got mad and Linda wrote back. Just drop it okay? Cassie is the good Christian friend I have always loved and cared for, even through the rough times like this. So please, Linda, Sad, and everyone else, forget this and go on. If Cassie doesn’t come back(i dobt she will), I surely will. I want to help and see my friend get better. God can help everyone with their difficulties and I think Linda needs to turn this over to God! P.S. I’m really sorry I wrote that last part about Linda and being fat, yea, I guess I was overly mad, and just my fingers got away from me as I was typing. I didn’t mean to be mean but you hurt my friend and I guess I was trying to hut her back for Cassie. You know? Thanks, you guys for listten to me blabber, I hope this makes it clearer for you. God bless U and I pray you guys resulve this thingy. if you guys have any questions what so ever about Cassie, just let me knoow, kkk? oh yeha, and you can write me too, i a person and would love to support anyone on this site who need the Lord's guidance in thier life. wrie soon.
Name: concerned mommy
Country: usa
Comment:
my baby has been like this for almost a year now, she won't eat any food and i think she may be drawing her sister into this as well. Just for reference my daughter is Alyssa, she doesn't eat. My other daughter Ali is younger and she says that we care more about Alyssa than about her. So she's not eating, that's been for about a month. My life revolves around my children eating or not eating. If they eat even a little bit of food. We gift them with something special. Sad, any advice. Please?
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
concerned mommy, how long has your daughter been like this? she may just be on the stage of denial, the begining of an eating disorder.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
thats really mean! what happened to this site? we all used to be about supportting each other and praying to Jesus, and now this high school girl fighting? what would God think of this? you're arguiing about who's a real christian, telling the other they dont belong here, saying the other one isn't nice, yada yada yada...... and person who knows cassie. you said its ineffective to call somebody names? you said linda isnt nice, and she should lose weight! this is an eating disorder board or whatever. we should be helping each other! linda, cass or whatever your name is, would the Lord really listen to us if we fought like this? and on this site, we should never tell anybody to lose weight. please dont leave because of a silly fight like this. you both had such a strong faith and good advice all the time and i dont know if you do anymore but i have faith that if you make up, Christ will forgive BOTH of you, and you wont be mad at each other or angry or whatever. God bless you, always. hey Aszure, how are you doing? hows your situation going? im praying for you! dont give up on the Lord!
Name: i know cassie
Country: usa
Comment:
hi, I know Cass and I want to say Linda you are the meanest person ever, yeah, and you call yourself a Christian, who would believe you. You call her names, you use bad words, and if that’s not enough, you don’t believe her. She made up the name for safty reasons, well she doesn’t want people to know who she is. Cuz if you did you wouldn’t care about her but would want her like signature and to meet her. So Linda get a life and see how unaffective you words were and know that you need Jesus. He is the only one that can turn you around.i know you’re guoing to be mad at me, but I’ only telling you this because I care about my friend. Why don’t you start caring like you say you do. By the way, ayone who goes on this website should STAY AWAY FROM LINDA OR LEER, SHE’S NOT A NICE PERSON AND DON’T BELIEVE WHAT SHE SAYS. Linda, take a long walk off a short pier! "Linda, Linda 2 by 4 can't get through ANY door. Lose some weight girl!!"
Name: xx
Country: usa
Comment:
X Hi, yeah, my girlfriend is yea really sinky like really skinny. I want her to get help cz shes so skinie it’s sick. But she won’t get help. my friend told me that his sister’s firned who he is dating has come ot this site and it’s all like help, so yea help me to finger out our girlfriend. Thanks. Jake! email me if you think I’m hot at X19years@aol.com I like chunky people, I will dub my girl if she gets inay skinnier yea, North Carloina girls are so skini jake---iii want someonene nommrla
Name: never eat
Country: india
Comment:
Hi, I hate food. I am not eating. I don’t weigh much. My friend’s friend told me that this is a good sight for support. I was wondering if I can find some help or something. I hate food, or did I say that already. Food hates me, I mean it, when I look at food it looks like it’s saying DON’T EAT ME, DON’T EAT ME. Sort of like in shark tales where the shark has to eat like these little things and they are like don’t eat us, don’t eat us! yeah well that’s like how foood is to me. Yeah, I havn’t eaten much for a while. My friend told me that a good person to talk to is cass. Anyway, cass could you help me? No offence or anything but my friend doesn’t think the other people on this site are like emotionally okay. You know what I mean. So cass can I talk to you? What doesn’t God say about like this, cass? Cass, please write back, I need help! You can e-mail me at underweight+food=fat@aol.com thanks cass, it would mean so much if you can help me and all. Forever, Ginger
Name: A concerned mommy
Country: usa
Comment:
I don’t believe this is a comment page; it seems like a teen hang out/chat room. I usually find these pages unhelpful, but it’s worth a try, can you give me some valuable help? What would you say if I said; I have a daughter that doesn’t eat. She refuses to eat, no matter what I bribe her with. I offered to buy her a new wardrobe but she still won’t eat. I guess you are teenagers so you know what I’m talking about. What can I do to get my daughter to eat? Her father and I are very concerned, we are supportive but she doesn’t seem to want support. We tell her that if she ever needs to talk, we here for her, but she responds that she is fine just not hungry. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s anorexic, I don’t want to alarm her and take her to the doctor but I don’t know what else to do. Any advice would be helpful, could I give her something that will make her stop? Should I advice her to come on this site? Please tell me! I need to find a way to help my daughter, before it’s too later. Respond quickly; I need your guidance on these issues. You can reach me at yellowducky@yahoo.com or over this site whichever you chose, do it quickly! Sincerely, Allyson
Name: me
Country: usa
Comment:
Linda, how can you help people who are suffering from an eating disorder when you don’t know what we’re talking about? Every time I needed advice Azsure and Sad would always answer with support and they were always helping me and supporting me. Excuse me for not trusting you, every time I wrote you I’d feel God telling me, “don’t trust Linda”. So I’m obedient to Him and you are making this more difficult for me. Why should I trust you? I don’t know if you are some rapist or something. So I made up a name; by the way it’s not lying. It doesn’t matter what your friends or you say about your walk with Christ, because only God knows your heart. Remember actions are stronger than words; so by the way you’re acting, I don’t think you’re a believer. Calling me names is so immature and unchristian-like, that’s why I said the stuff I said. I gave you a chance to ask for forgiveness, but you were unwilling to say sorry, how child-like and ungodly. Today’s sermon was on forgiveness, I thought of you. Linda, I thought that maybe you would ask for forgiveness but you didn’t and said you never would. So to quote Jesus dying on the cross, “Lord, forgive them for they do not know what to do.” To put it in this case, “Lord, forgive Linda for she doesn’t know what she is doing.” I’ve been on this website since around January. When you finally became apart of the website around May I thought hey great, you were so godly and so eager to help, even if you didn’t have a disorder. But you’ve changed, I don’t know if that’s because of school or your friends but I know one thing you aren’t as filled with God as you use to be... you became drawn away and you are drawing this site away with you. I can pray for you as you go through this struggling time. I pray God can help you through this and teach you more about Him. I know I’ve learned something from this experience and I hope you did too. I wish we stuck to the subject and focused on the main reason we were on this site, to help and support. But instead people seemed to focus on other things… Linda, your words hurt me so much, I thought you were my friend… but for whatever reason you chose to be cruel, I forgive you. I say that from the bottom of my heart, I’m hurt and crying and my lack of eating has increased from what you said, but I still forgive you. Why, you may ask, because my relationship with God is more important than holding grudges. I will continue to pray for you, Linda. Tears are fogging my vision as I say this; Linda, you really need to put your life in order. God should be the center of everything in your do, say, and how you act. Thank-you, Linda, for all you have taught me through this experience on this website. Now, goodbye and may God bless the rest of your life.Azsure and Sad, you are such a awesome help to me. You have been there when I needed to talk or express my feelings, I thank-you both SO much for all you’ve done and all the friendship you provide me. You two are great! You both are the best part of this site, you knew what I was talking about and would always find a way to help or answer my questions. Keep it up with the other people who come to this site. They need to talk to someone who understands. Remember to always pray for each other. God can help everyone with their problems and He is always there with a supporting hand to lead them along. I must leave this site because of my own difficulties; you two have been so helpful and I couldn’t express enough thanks to you. May God bless you in your walk with Him and help you find peace and support to get through this… could you two do me a favor? Please, oh please help those who come on this website. Be supportive and a friend… and like you said Azsure; stick to the subject. I pray everyone who comes to this website is supported (by you two) and you can help them through this difficult time. Always pointing them towards Jesus. I really trust you guys, and I wish I could have met you, Azsure. But I’m trying to honor my parent’s rules and God’s plan for me. I’m sure you understand. You both have been super friends and I wish I could stay…but it’s impossible in these situations. Hugs and God bless! Love in Christ, -me (x-diving rocks!) thanks for your responce, Azsure. You're great, but there's no use when Linda and I only fight. I wish I could just talk to you and Sad, you guys understand me and I trust you.
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Well,Cass i want you to come back,i'm really really sorry,just i guess i miss understood some of the things you said it's just you do one thing and then something else,but just i dont know,lissen i want to help in everyway that i can but you seem like you're holding back,i cant understand everything but i'll try,but if you want help from me,you'er gonna have to open up alittle bit..please.i want to help i really really realy do..love Aszure.
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
I'm am not driving people away thank you, you are. Im here to give advice to people who need it but how can anyone take what you say to heart when all you do is lie then go from the sweetest person to someone I'm not happy to ever meet. And thank you I am a good Christian and no matter what you and others say I will always be. I'm saved and a follower of the Lord and believe that I will go to heaven and live in paradise with the Lord forever. So thank you for being so blunt about your thoughts, cause I'm not ever gonna be sorry that I said this stuff I was so happy to meet you because I had someone that was so great in the lord who was here to help me help others but now I don't know who you are. Well this is to who ever comes to this website. I'm am not going to tell you I'm a person I'm not and I will always be here to help you. There was a reason that you came here and I wanna help you through your problems. I'm sorry for any one who thinks that this website is not going to help anyone. We should of never got off the topic so much, I'm so very sorry, Aszure is right. Please dont leave and if you need any help feel free to just ask, I'm here. Please don't think that we just talk and no ones here to help. God will lead me to help any one who ask in the best way I can. I'm praying for you all and thinking of everyone always. Love Linda
Name: someone
Country: usa
Comment:
don't expect me to come back. thanks a lot linda for being so mean, hmmm, maybe you wrote those mean notes about me- oh and calling me satinic and a devil worshiper was a big help huh? i wouldn't be suprised if you were, linda! i didn't lie azsure, i just made up a name i never said, "my name is cass", i said "you can call me cass". you wonder why i don't trust people on the internet, maybe there's reason to. so stop accusing and look at yourself! linda, think about what Jesus would do, hmmmm, maybe be nice? why am i leaving, because i feel God telling me to get out of this situation, because it isn't safe!! i express that to do you and all you do is call me names. well excuse me for doubting you but, you don't seem like a TRUE Christian. i'm going to find true Christian friends that I can speak to and that understand me, not a group of loner. I'm crushed by your hurtful words and NEVER coming back-hmmm, maybe my friend is right-the people on the east coast are toothless, meanign branless. i'm still praying for you but don't expect me to come back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -oh, and i thought you said you were here to help people, linda, you're driving people away!
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Hey Cass,well it is becomeing harder to trust you since you keep lieing,i understand and all but bariley,lisen i still want you to come back,just try to be alittle more honest,k?you'er kinda confuseing me with all these names,just stick with one,well,hey leer,what's up?how's things been?well everyone i have to go,maybe insted of like chatting on this we can start helping again...Love Aszure..(chatting to one other is a good thing and all but i do have some problems and so dose everyone else and personaliy i dont think i wanna tell you all,i mean befor i flet that i could tell you guys anything,i dont like feeling like i cant)
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Cass, who r u really?
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
Cass, I don't understand? U just pop up with more and more and more suprises at first I was forgiving but I don't know now.... I mean what next, ur a satinist and worship the devil? Sorry to be so harsh but what next r we going to find out about u? Im sorry but this is to much. But Im not going to leave this site cause theres a reason God sent me here and Im gona stay and help people. Leave if u want to. Sadly, Linda
Name: PRAYERS!
Country: usa
Comment:
Please go to www.healgloria.com and help pray for a little girl who so need your prayers! Please be apart of this you guys; leer, sad, azsure. thanks-yeah, i know i said that was one-more-thing but i have to write this. Please pray for gloria an innocent little girl who got hurt. :( Love, Cass
Name: cass-one more thing
Country: usa
Comment:
by the way, my real first name isn't Cass or Cassandra, I just made it up since I'm not suppose to tell my real name. Nifty, huh? Also if someone, anyone I knew came on here, they wouldn't be able to identify me. like in the case of you and your sister, Azsure... i was trying to protect myself from that. well i really got to go. bye! Love, (so called) Cass P.S. if you ever write me, i'll maybe still come back, but still call me cass, okay?
Name: cass
Country: usa
Comment:
I've thought about it and see now that I shouldn't come on as much. it's not healthy, i mean i have not real friend and only computer friends. i'm ditching important stuff to just come on here and see who wrote. i'm sorry but i'm gunna have to cut back coming a lot or just not come anymore, i hope you understand. good bye all, i pray you all draw close to the Lord and find Him even through this struggling time. Love, Cass P.S. this doesn't have anything to do with what the sicko said about me... i just feel like it's time to leave. but who knows, i may show up sometime on this site. bye!
Name: Linda
Country: usa
Comment:
who ever is that just dont worry there gay love lind
Name: fatty
Country: usa
Comment:
You are all FAT, oh oh, becareful before you become a hipo, you fatty!
Name: cass
Country: usa
Comment:
What's going on? I was just on a minute ago and now someone is putting mean comments on! Whoever is typeing this; you're WRONG God does care about me. Even though I'm the fattest.... Cass
Name: Pity Poddy
Country: usa
Comment:
You are nuts, Cass, Someone, and Sad, get off your little pitty poddy and see your real self. you are all fat girls who don't know a fuckin' thing that's going on with you. You don't even know how to spell the word disorder. you just wish you were skinny as us who have the disorder, so just shut up and get your fucking ass out of here. i'm a guy and you girls are just blubber, you remind me of a whales. cass, you're the fattest, what does God care about your crappy looks. hun, loss weight, you goof. -
Name: Cass
Country: usa
Comment:
Azsure, Sad, hi, how’s it going? Thanks for your support, you guys. I mean it’s so hard, and like no one knows what’s going on with us. That’s why it’s great to talk to each other. Sad, you’re fine. I mean it… sure I wanna get below 100 but it sucks to see other people going through this. You are fine, if you want to loss a few pounds sure, but losing 40 pounds is way too much, I pray God can help you with your difficulties and give you someone in person to talk to. The friend I talked to really helped me, just by supporting me and being there and willing to talk. Sad, you can exercise but going anorexic is never, ever, ever the answer! Today I ate like nothing, my mom supported me. It’s so weird. But later I ate some watermelon and felt good. Have you guys ever felt like once you ate the food it was like you didn’t want to eat it. That’s how I feel I mean, I eat something and love it while I’m eating it but once it’s gone I wanna puke it up. Yuck! That and crying myself to sleep is a natural for me… Silent Night has sort of stopped the crying… it has given me something to think about and take my mind of my feelings of eating/not eating. You know what I mean? I don’t think I’m like anorexic but just going through a stage of not eating… sort of a tiny anorexia time of my life. Ya know? I thank-you guys for talkin’ to me. It’s so GREAT to like talk to you, I mean since you guys know what I’m talking about… most people don’t know me this way, not even my family. I don’t think my friend even knows what’s going on with me, except that I’ve lost like a ton of weight… Azsure, you’re right, you sort of don’t want people to know…..yeah, me too. Well take care of yourselves, k? Hi, Leer, I hope school is going good. Love, Cass (hey, you like just wrote your messege, Azsure like right before I got on, the second time...yeah, that's neat... i know I'm weird. ha ha!)
Name: Someone
Country: usa
Comment:
Lissen Sad,you dont need to get down to 91,try 115,you might feel better.You haveing alittle bit of meat on you is not a bad thing you need it,you will always need it,i personaliy think you are fine just the way you are,and your weight is fine,you'er not over,you not much under,you'er just fine,Bye everyone...Love Aszure.
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
i know exactly how it feels to cry like that. i was after allm born with depression so im always miserable about something. ALWAYS feeling like a pig...ALWAYS feeling fat...ALWAYS feeling like an overeater...ALWAYS feeling like im always eating...ALWAYS feeling fat everywher ei touch my body...im disgusting...im slightly under 130 now, but that's too high. im gonna go to 91 and see if thats good enough. but.......ugh.....i wish i was never hungry.........................or something.......................................my legs are flabby, mu butt sticks out, my arms have a little fat on them, my arms have always been skinny! and my stomach.....ugh! o Lord please get rid of this disgusting thing that i cant get rid of no matter how many crunches i do...................................................
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Hey,Cass...i know what you mean with crying at night befor you go to sleep,i do that all the time,and my firend i think he tried to understand,and really tried to get me to gain more and stop cutting and everything,but i got mad at him,and all we did was talk about me being thin and cutting and how i should stop and gain weight,well at least it seemed like that,i guess it was my falt...Well my sister left so maybe i will still come back i just wont write as much,Oh and hey Linda,sad,and everyone else,take care of yourselfe everyone,love Aszure.
Name: cass, again :)
Country: usa
Comment:
Azsure, really? I pray God can guide to the right person to talk to… it’s hard for crushes to understand, huh? Last week I cried myself to sleep, I hated myself, and felt mad at everyone. I don’t know what was happening to me. I was really weird too, like walking in to walls… This week I’m better. I feel more myself. Though I feel still piggish and fat, I’m not so emotional. Hey, do you have Christmas music? If so find a really sweet copy of Silent Night, listen to it as you fall asleep. It helps you and makes you feel closer to God… it has really helped me not cry at night. Try it, it may help. I like this version that is played with a sax, it’s so pretty sort of makes me fall asleep in Jesus. Azsure, here’s a great site for BMI for us: I’ll talk to you later. Love, Cassandra P.S. Remember you can ALWAYS find peace in Christ Jesus. He can help you through everthing!
Name: DeathIAm
Country: usa
Comment:
Hey,cass..umm i dident tell my sister she just umm like found it,she dident tell anyone else,but i mean if she found it someone else might to,and well i've been acting kinda stupid latly,and i've been kinda emotinal and depressed,i really dont know why,maybe i should tell someone,i did once but well he tried to help i dident really know him tho,just a firend of mine over the computer,the weird thing about it was that i loved him,and he loved me to but after he found out everything kinda started to crash and burn,so i dont want anyone to know but maybe someone should.anyway,bye..
Name: cas
Country: usa
Comment:
wait, Azsure, if your parents told you not to come on this... you should obey them. But if it's just your sister, maybe you should talk to your parents and stuff. tell them that this is a site where we talk about our problems and like pray for each other, yeah. But don't be deseatful. K? Well that was just one more idea.
Name: Cass
Country: usa
Comment:
Linda, I know it’s hard… I mean with friend who are being drawn astray. I’ll be praying for your guy friend… hey do you like him? :) Yeah, my X-best friend use to be so close to God, closer than I am… not she’s a total slut. It was a big change, I pray for her, but know that I can’t reach her anymore, only God can help her out of this predicament, you know what I mean? That how I feel, all the guys I like or think are cute just like pass me… I think it’s due to my weight, but heck knows what’s going through their heads. So I guess most guys, or at least the cute/popular guys just run after girls that show a lot of skin. LOL! Anyway, I know that someday, I’ll find someone to date and all… but right now, I’m relying on God. He’ll bring the right boy around, all in good time. (happy face.) Well I’ve got to go, I don’t think I’ll be on often but I’ll try to get on once maybe twice a week, K? Yeah, my total focus is school. Plus my social life sucks, but what else is new. Well, talk to you guys later. You all rock! Thanks for being there and willin’ to talk. Love, Cass--------- Azsure, I have a few ideas about you coming back… I mean if you want to, maybe change your name-like on the site. Like instead of Azsure or deathiam, put it something that no one would ever think is you… that’s what I had to do, you remember “diving rocks”. I mean no one could identify me, I mean no one I know… that way people wouldn’t know it’s me. Or maybe we can switch to another site, something, I don’t know, different. Wait, how did your sister find out about it? Did you tell her? I kind of try to keep that (the web site) silent, I mean I don’t tell people because I guess I don’t want any of my friends and stuff to know that I’m struggling. I trust you guys, plus the likelihood of us meeting is bare none. That’s what I made up that stupid “Samantha” person, that way no one even you guys didn’t know who Samantha was… till I told you. It was so funny to see your reactions. I mean I know I’m a little crazy but it was sort of like you guys thought I was completely bonkers… maybe I am. Who knows? SO, yeah that’s what I would do… maybe I’ll try to e-mail you… maybe sometime… but I’ll keep your e-mail address so when I can, I will. May God bless you, Azsure and help you in your walk with the Lord. I’ll miss you. Love, Cass
Name: Leer
Country: usa
Comment:
Hey yall, school is doing good the guy I like, I wrote him a note,and he wrote back and said even tho he doesn't like me like i like him hes still my friend and that the reason that he doesnt like me isnt because my weight which made my day lol. Well Cass please pray for my freind cause like hes reall strong in the Lord and a great person but he likes a girl whos like the complete oppisite and Im scared she'll change hima nd I kinda have feelings for him.... WEll I have to go I'll talk to yall later, I wont be able to get on for 10 days so srry, me and my sis got in afight so.... lol byt love always Linda
Name: DeathIAm(this sucks
Country: usa
Comment:
well i guessed i lied last time,that wasent my last comment bur this will be,if anyone whants to talk you can e-mail me at zshirleym@hotmail.com and i will miss you all and remember everything you have helped me with and i'm glad that i'm help some of you,Cass that verse is about not thinking you are butiful for what you have but that you are butiful for who you are,for who you are on the inside,not everyone likes how they look but if they are a good person on the inside they will soon to be a butufial person on the out side as well,even if you yourselfe cant see it.Lissen i want to come back and all but i dont know what to do anymore,i dont want my family to find out but i do want help,and this site is the only way i have been able to get it,i want to come back and talk and help and get helped but then another part of me just dosent want my family to know and i'm afraid if i keep coming back that they will find out..and i really really dont want them to,what should i do?love Aszure.
Name: Cass
Country: usa
Comment:
Leer, hey, how’s school? Mine is okay, difficult in some subjects and fun in others. I came across a book that gives you answers from the Bible. It’s awesome! It’s called armed and dangerous. I love it! I know here on this site we’re all struggling with our outward appearance, I read this verse and it made me think of you: 1 Peter 3:3,4 –“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” Leer, that really makes me think about what you’ve been telling us. It doesn’t matter how much you weigh but rather you’re relationship with God. It sucks to be teased about your appearance but that verse shows me. God says, “Cass, be quiet, don’t think of what your body looks like but think of your spirit, I love you.” Isn’t that an awesome word of insight to us? I love seeing God’s verses in the Bible that help me become a better person. I hope to talk to you soon! You’re still going to come on the site even though Azsure doesn’t, right? I hope so! You are such a big part of this sort of support site, really. You always give me something to think about. May God bless your day, may He help you with school, and I praise God for the opportunity of meeting another Christian girl (you know, it’s hard to find Christian girls, like you… I’m glad we’re friends). Talk to you later. Love, Cassandra
Name: Cassandra
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad, you’re perfect, don’t go anorexic… even if you feel fat, like I do… I’m really gunna miss Aszure as I’m sure you will too. She’s been such a wonderful help to all of us. Azsure, if you ever come here again, know this: We miss you! We really will miss talking to you over this site. I’ll promise you this, I’ll remember everything you helped me with and I’ll always be praying for you! If you happen to be on, maybe I can find out your (Azsure’s), Sad’s. and Leer’s e-mail address and maybe once I have my own e-mail thingy I can write you… May God bless you on your journey through life. May He help you get through all your trials, and I pray you continue to trust in the Lord. He is the best help you’ll ever find. Love, Cass (if you’re ever on again this site again, PLEASE write!!!!!!) Do you guys have yahoo IM?
Name: sad
Country: usa
Comment:
cass you are at a perfect weight. but if you really feel you need to lose some, you could lose maybe 5 pounds. trust me. ive learned from my mom, and she's very intelligent about losing weight and how much you really need to lose. i just lost 5 pounds in a week and hoping to lose about 45 more. Aszure, we'll really miss you, and if you feel that way, then okay, but we'll always be here for you if you need some support. Good luck, and God bless!
Name: DeathIAm(last comment
Country: usa
Comment:
Hey everyone sorry that i'm not gonna come back,but i just cant have anyone else finding out,my sister found this site and talked to me about it,she dosent think i have an eating disorder and i want to keep it that way,with noone knowing,i will miss you all so so much,and Sad,dont go anorexic,please dont,i'm begging you not to,you are fine just the way you are,try to focus on happy happy thoughts and maybe get into something like danceing or something,you could always take a dance class to keep your mind of things,it would keep you thin and healthy and you could eat and stuff,just take care of yourself,Cass i'm sorry that i'm not gonna come back,i really really am,but i really dont want people to know,and it would be cool to know you in person but that probaly wont happen since we have no other way to keep in touche,only over this,so bye,take good good care of yourselfe,okay?BYE EVERYONE,love you all,love Aszure.
Name: cass
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad, girl, hi, I jsut went to the weight watcher thingymajober. I'm 20... I hope to loss another 10 pounds or more.... I'm 5 foot 5 inches and weight 125... so normal... but I need to loss weight. I really need to badly...thanks, CASS
Name: cassandra
Country: usa
Comment:
Sad! NO!!!!! You’re doing so well! God is helping you improve, I don’t want you to become like this. Really, Sad, anorexia can kill, take Terry Shibole. She died from anorexia, I’m not proud of my just watermelon diet. But other food makes me barf! It sucks! I don’t know if I’m anorexic… I think if I am it’s not a long term thing. Sometimes I can eat food but mainly it’s just watermelon, other food is crap. BUT Sad, you don’t want it back again. I want to be normal again, but heck knows when that will happen. You’re not a pig, you’re normal, don’t listen to peer pressure or those stinkin’ magazines. Remember God loves you and wants to help you. Please, I’m here if you wanna talk… and Sad, please, please start talking to God again. He will help you with this, I swear! Love, Cass p.s. what’s the intern